I've been trying to do this weaning thing for about a week or so now, maybe more (haven't really kept track). The engorgement seems as if it's gone down, compared to how it used to be when I was still breastfeeding her. I've read that sage tea helps stop the milk supply. I've been drinking it, religiously, but don't see much results of it going away. I've gotten this lump on my left side, that feels like possibly a cluster? Like, milk is backed up or something. I don't know if it's a vein, or what, I just want the swelling & milk to stop! Can anyone give suggestions as to what else may work? This is taking longer than I'd like/want, lol.