My only child is a 8yr. old boy. I'm a single mother and my son only visits with his father about 2 days out of the month. He generally obeys my orders at home and listens when I speak to him. However, he just began the third grade on August 25th, and I've already had to attend 2 parent/teacher conferences related to his behavior, and now his grades are also being affected. He has three teachers, and they all say he's very bright, but he can't seem to sit still or concentrate. They say when he's prompted to do independant work he simply sits there and stares. There's absolutely no complaints about him being disrespectful; actually, they say he's one of the most respectful kids in their classes. And, when they give him instructions, ie: go back to your seat, he follows them, but then two minutes later, he's back to whatever he was doing. I feel helpless and frustrated. I reward him when he does well, and I take away privileges, ie: no tv, to wii, when he does'nt do so well. The counselor placed him on a behavior chart and also promised him prizes if he did well, but that doesn't seem to be helping either. His teachers say he doesn't seem to care that I'm gonna see that chart. The teachers and I have both filled out some behavioral forms which I'm supposed to take to his pediatrician to see if he has ADD, ADHD, or something along those lines, but I'm a little hesitant about having him diagnosed. Any suggestions????