My daughter is 9 years old . She is a very difficult child has been from the beginning.she won't sleep on her own . Screams if we eat in front of her will only eat certain foods . Will only wear certain clothes to the point she wouldn't wear underwear. I'm dreading school starting again as she refuse to get up early if she's still tired. She's so disrespectful and down right mean to me all the time! At school she's fine and very very intelligent. At home she's mean to me and her dad and brother . If we wiggle our foot or sniff too loudly she has a huge outburst ! I'm at my wits end I don't know what to do . Life is pretty miserable . I describe it as 9 years of HELL !!!! What can I do ??!!