They are very young to be experimenting like that- experimenting and curiosity does happen, but they obviously have a level of knowledge they got somewhere (pornography, possibly being abused themselves, etc). A conversation should happen, not just with the boys but also it's important to have a conversation with the parents (I know it's not a fun conversation, but it needs to be done so they know). You don't need to shame them or embarrass them, but you should try and figure out where they got this idea and create some boundaries on what is ok and what isn't (I wouldn't permit sleepovers, etc). These kids are not consenting adults- a few of them are not even teenagers, and in my opinion it's not ok to not address this with them. They need honest communication about sex- not just letting curiosity take them places they really have no idea what they are about or the consequences that can go along with it.
Most boys do experiment with each other; however, they usually do not start sucking each other’s private parts until they are around 16-17 which is when a lot of guys lose their virginity. I would be extremely concerned as to where they learned how to do it and the mechanics behind it. Most boys who do experiment are heterosexual...it’s just a ronde vous if you will. However, considering age, it’s something you should look into. No child male or female should know that much about the mechanics of sex to know where to “put things ” besides the basics of teaching them about inappropriate touching. If your child does turn out gay or bisexual, accept him with loving and open arms, and please do not turn your back on him and/or kick him out. I’m a Christian, and I will happily accept anyone on the bases that what they are doing does not hurt themselves, a child, any one else, and animals. After all, God said “love thy neighbor as you love yourself” and to “not judge for the extent that you judge the same will be held against you”.
eh, tell them theyre too young
You should have stopped them immediately! Wth! You are a parent and it’s your duty to stop and have a dialogue about the rules of the house and the discuss with son. You Should have stopped then and called the other parents and told them. The Other parents need to know too!!!!
It Seriously baffles me how anyone Especially a parent would not have stopped this!!