Hi, Greg here.
I have a 14 year old daughter that has grown a lot over the past two years. She's around 5'11" now and catching up to her mother' height. She's also very strong naturally, plus has become addicted to weight lifting over the past year since she joined her high schools field hockey team. I'm 5'5 on a good day, 130 lbs soaking wet.
Her mother told her to clean her room last week before she went a way on a business trip. Cleaning her room has been an issue, and my wife told me to check to make sure she cleaned it. I went in her room, it wasn't clean, so I told her to clean it, and she said to me, "who's going to make me, you?". She lifted me off the ground against the wall and started giggling. I was a bit stunned at this moment, and I told her to put me down, and she paused for a while starring at me then said "maybe". She put me down then told me she would clean it later. I was very shaken up so I said "OK" and left.
I told her mother when she got home from her business trip and she laughed it off, saying "I guess she takes after my side of the family." This wasn't exactly the support I was looking for. I'm not sure what to do her and could use some advice. Thanks.