I have a 14 yo daughter. I started spying on her internet activity & came across an acct she has on Ask.fm. For those of you who aren't familiar, ask.fm is a site on which people can ask you questions anonomously and u answer them. Once u answer, the anonymous. question and your answer are posted on your account for all to see. The problem with that is because questioners are anonymous, lots of the bullying and insults can happen.
I noticed my daughter was getting some pretty cruel questions. For example, why are you so ugly? of course, as a parent I was crushed, which brings me to my big mistake.
I started posting anonymous things to her like "ur pretty" . I even went so far as posing as a boy at her school , telling her how much I like her, etc.
long story short. She found me out. I don't know what to do. She has not directly said anything to me. I don't think she knows for sure. But I do think she's pretty convinced. I really don't want to make a confession just in case there's any doubt in her mind. but I'm sure she knows or at least thinks she does.
I feel like one of thoe crazy parents. I also feel like the trust between us is gone. I'm sure she is humiliated. Can i ever get her trust back?thoughts?