Hi MelzieWelzie,
I'm not sure if you still follow this message board, but I'm very interested to know how things turned out for you. I'm 43 now, and desperately trying for #3. I've had 8 miscarriages, so i'm more than just a little scared. I have two amazing and perfect daughters, so I believe it's possible to have one more. However, I've had 6 miscarriages since my youngest daughter was born. I'm wondering if there's any hope for me.
Thank you,
Cindi
I am turning 44 tomorrow and I have been trying for a year to get pregnant..no luck! I have three healthy children...ages 21,19 and 15. I lost a child in 2007 due to complications with Strep B. I was 20 weeks pregnant. My husband and I would love to have another child! Reading these comments from everyone gives me hope. I am just going to keep trying naturally. My doctor told me 2007 that I was getting older and if I wanted another child to not wait too long. I, for some reason, did not realize what she meant until now! ;0( However, I was really scared to try again due to the baby's death (she lived six hours). I am now not trying as hard but just letting my luck play out. I have regular periods...every 28 days...like clock work. Wish us luck!
Hi,
It is great to read all the comments. I just turned 43 this last June, and got married to my second husband a year and a half ago. He is now talking about wanting a child. I have a 20 year old and a 18 year old already. He has never had his own, and has been raising mine with me for 9 years. I am at a crossroads!!! Not sure what the right thing is... My girls are so busy with their own lives it feels a little"empty nested" and I am not doing well with this feeling.. I am healthy and fit.. Any thoughts or similar circumstances out there?
I had a baby by emergency c section at 25 he was autistic .
I had another child at thirty by c- section at 30
No problems.
Then a girl at thirty four c-section no problems but after six weeks of birth i had a ruptured wall like a large hernia so had to have it resown six months later wich was awful experience.
Then i got caught at 38 had fourth c-section no problems no hassle straight forward . Since then ive been active and healthy other than heartburn . Now im in a new relationship and have got caught at 44 and scared to death id just started the gym two months ago and was getting fit now im scared to death what to do my boyfriends over the moon im scared for my other kids they need a healthy mom to take care of them x
I had a baby by emergency c section at 25 he was autistic .
I had another child at thirty by c- section at 30
No problems.
Then a girl at thirty four c-section no problems but after six weeks of birth i had a ruptured wall like a large hernia so had to have it resown six months later wich was awful experience.
Then i got caught at 38 had fourth c-section no problems no hassle straight forward . Since then ive been active and healthy other than heartburn . Now im in a new relationship and have got caught at 44 and scared to death id just started the gym two months ago and was getting fit now im scared to death what to do my boyfriends over the moon im scared for my other kids they need a healthy mom to take care of them x
I had a baby by emergency c section at 25 he was autistic .
I had another child at thirty by c- section at 30
No problems.
Then a girl at thirty four c-section no problems but after six weeks of birth i had a ruptured wall like a large hernia so had to have it resown six months later wich was awful experience.
Then i got caught at 38 had fourth c-section no problems no hassle straight forward . Since then ive been active and healthy other than heartburn . Now im in a new relationship and have got caught at 44 and scared to death id just started the gym two months ago and was getting fit now im scared to death what to do my boyfriends over the moon im scared for my other kids they need a healthy mom to take care of them x