Hi, I know this is the wrong forum as I'm only 23yrs but my 2 kids are only 12 days shy of a year apart yes there was stressful times being that they both had different needs and were at different development stages but now they are best friends and do everything together (now 2 and 3yrs old) yes they still fight occasionally but wouldn't have it any other way.
No it happens and its ok as long as you have support
Ok, so I'm the only silly one to do.this then, ok.