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489656 tn?1249999983

Well, its started :*(

I just knew my miscarriage was going tostart today. my b/f and i took the motorcycle out yesterday just to get out of the house. when we got home i went to the bathroom and had what looked to be VERY faint pink. i showed my b/f (he couldnt see anything) and told him i'd be starting my m/c either last night or today. i woke up in the middle of the night an dhad a lil cramping an dhad to pee. i was soo scared i wouldnt get out of the bed :(  so i got up this morning and went to the bathroom, and sure enough, it had started. :*(      i hope its not as long as last time. my 7 yr old is going to be w/ me for 2 weeks before going to Disneyland,a dn i hope i dont have to spend it in bed. id like to be able to do things w/ him. i have to go to my other sons school today to pick up his stuff. do you think that would hurt me, or should i see if i could get someone else to get it? will it make me bleed more?  thanks alot for any input!
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377493 tn?1356502149
I am sorry, I know what a difficult time this is.  But you are right, closure is a good thing.  I think your wise to keep about your normal routine as much as possible.  I doubt it will increase the bleeding, and keeping busy right now is good.  I am so glad you have such a supportive b/f and family.  That makes all the difference.  Hang in there my friend.  Take good care of yourself, and I am keeping you in my prayers.

Big hugs.
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489656 tn?1249999983
Thanks you guys! yea ive been told that i should just carry on w/ my activities, but i wont go far from home. i guess laying around would be awful. i just wont "overdue" it.
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294043 tn?1354207946
I am so sorry you are going through such tough time.  Many hugs to you.
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377412 tn?1283809646
Well personally....its easier for me when I was up moving around w/my last m/c.  I wouldnt do too much or be away from home a long stretch but bein in bed doesnt sound great.
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489656 tn?1249999983
hi there. well i had an u/s tuesday. i was supposed to be 9w5d. my sac had actually shrunk since my u/s at 6w5d. and my yolk sac was 16mm. they measured something they said couldve been the embryo, soo...  yea im pretty sure. its only been a little bleeding, mainly when i go pee, but im sure its trying to get going. i just want it over with, so i can have closure.
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I'm so sorry to read your post.  However, could you be wrong?  I would check with a doctor immediately to be sure.  I thought I miscarrying at 7 weeks because of red bleeding and cramps and I was wrong.  Take care.
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