sooo confused

[aowens]

Ok....my opk was positive on the 20th....I even had EWCM....sooo I am thinking I am 2 to 3 dpo....my cm went back to sticky dr now this morning my temp was up to 97.90....and I had watery CM and my cervix was so high I could barely reach it so Idk if it was open or not...me and the hubs BD just in case :).....now my cervix seems lower not too low and a little softer...my cm is a yellowish creamy color not EW like but just the same I am thinking maybe since we BD'd this morning that could be left over semen? sorry TMI....

I am soooo confused....my bs's are sore and I am so freakin tired all I wanna do is take a nap...

What do my medhelp ladies think

[aowens]

Just wanted to udpate...

I got my BFP 10/31 I couldnt be more excited...

Thank you all for your comments

[adgal]

Always helpful, and a good reminder for me!  We are all different, and on top of that every pregnancy is different, even with the same mom.  

[bevfly]

Hi ladies just wanted to add my wee bit about ovulation,i do believe that it helps to be more in tune with our bodies.We are all different and can only compare with each other all our worries and stories.I always look into things too much and find myself getting stressed too easily,but now ive decided not to and be more relaxed.It is difficult to not stress but i truly believe that the more we stress the harder it makes TTC.We have all been there every month thinking that any little symptom is more than it really is when its just your body playing tricks or in my case it was the clomid and its nasty mind games.Listen to your body and feel any twinge or pain and keep note of it for reference.Thats what i do and i know when i ovulate now without even using ovulation kits or tests.Chart everything and look out for signs no matter how small.What some ladies experience others may not so thats why it confusing when you think hey maybe i should feel that too.I get spotty just before ovulation and my breasts get slightly tender but many others dont.Hope i was helpful without going on too much ladies SSBD Bev xx

[adgal]

For some it can be even later.  24-48 is the average for sure, but it can be as short as 12 hours and as long as 72.  It's weird, because I never really had any O symptoms before except ewcm, but now I have almost pregnancy like symptoms.  Maybe your getting the same thing.  

Raven, wouldn't that be great?  I honestly don't know why they don't invent something that tells you right away...

[trying43]

You can ovulate 24-48 hrs after a positive opk.  Good luck to you.

[aowens]

LOL raven exactly....we all know it can be done....

Amanda....hi cycle buddy...Im thinking my ovulation dates maybe a little off? even though I get a  positive opk...i dont think i ovulate until days after? is that possible?

[RavenT]

a home pregnancy blood tester... like they use for diabetics... LOL

[adgal]

Hey cycle buddy!!  When we are ttc we become extremely aware of our bodies.  I think you already know that at 2 to 3 dpo it is pretty much impossible for these to be any sort of pregnancy symptoms..implantation only takes place at 3dpo at the earliest, and usually not until a bit longer then that.    Sore bb's and being tired can be caused by many many things.  The last few months I get like that just around o time which never happened before.  I am betting that more then likely these are fairly normal changes that you just weren't overly aware of before you started ttc.  

Try not to read to much into anything at this stage.  The 2ww is soooo hard, but I'm with you girlfriend!!  I'm in it too and hating every second of it.  I'm telling you, they need to come up with something that tells us right away!!

[aowens]

and now tonight cervix still a little high...but it more dry now...