Yes, I’ve had my own mother make rude comments to me. She also told everyone in the waiting room, while she was waiting to meet her own grandson (delivery) that I needed to have a tubal ligation. Can you tell that we don’t have a good relationship?
A lot of my family made very rude comments last time I was pregnant. We lost the baby and still, people were rude instead of supportive. I am almost 5 weeks now and we aren't telling anyone for a while. I don't need the negativity, and if people are being rude to you, neither do you. This is a wonderful, happy time. You deserve love and support.