Heartbroken...

[firstladynyl]

I prayed and prayed. Practically begged God to bless me with the one thing to complete my husband. I had 3 girls and one son prior. He had 3 girls prior. We hadour 1st baby girl together last year. Im 38. High risk. 6th and last pregnancy. 13 weeks. I get the call today with the gender revealing. And my heart fell to the floor when she said its a "girl".  Another girl...no chances of me ever being the one to carry his son.  The perfect man. Husband. And I cant give him that. Knowing that deep down he was soo hoping to have a son of his own.  I couldnt stop crying.  I know its not my fault or determination but the fact that I really wanted to give him that gift makes me feel like a looser that I cant and never will after this...

[cmoore69]

The man's sperm is what determines the sex of a baby. You can't g

[mag131]

I am probably one of many women who do not care of baby sex. I am happy for my second healthy boy couldn't be more happier. Be bless you are carrying a healthy baby. We do not get to choose it just chosen for us..

[loveof8]

I also are hoping for another little girl, we have 5 boys 3 girls, and I know my kids would love another little girl.But I know in my heart it will be a boy so have come to the conclusion as long as it is healthy that is all that matters.

[Bellacabadas]

Just take it as a Blessing as Long As everything is good and baby is healthy, I'm 39 and expecting my 6 baby and it's a Boy I will have 3 girls and 3 boys. But every time I've conceived I feel so bad and heart broken because my older Brother never was able yo have kids of his own he sterile and they tried Ivf about 9 yrs ago with no success and I have 6 blessings that God Has Blessed Us With!
Well God Bless You And Ur Family! ;)

[JulieKuhnert]

I understand you're disappointed, but really, you should be happy that you've been able to have children at all. There are women out there who try for years, any would give anything to just have one, you have what. ..4 children, pregnant with your 5th?And you're whining about it being a girl, be happy God blessed you with children, you could be like the many people out there who are infertile.  My husband an I are going for a girl, but you know what, I will be over the moon no matter what gender they tell me. It's been 2 years we've been trying.

[mondaysgirl]

I think the only people who truly understand your position Hon is those who have walked in the same shoes we know you'll love this child like u do the others, you can't help how u feel and not being able to voice thus without fear of judgement is unhealthy, sorry your feel I g like you are good luck in your future XX