Teagan - this is truly horrible - bless your heart & I'm sure you've had no time or health to enjoy your baby!! I think you should post this question on the ask-the-expert forum. I wish to hell they hadn't dismissed you all of those times until they were d@mn sure everything was out. It sounds like they kept dropping the ball - inexcusable!!
I've never experienced anything like this - I can't imagine all what you're going through. You might want to pm Peekawho - she's a labor/delivery nurse and will lend her expertise if she can. I will pray for you and a speedy recovery & a dr who knows what the heck he/she's talking about!!
it sounds to me like there was more than just elft over tissues and things in there with all that bleeding. It sound slike there was a tear that they were missing. did they go in with a camera to assure that you have no tears yet?
i would be flipping mad if i were you. there is no need that you had to go through that much trauma. I am so sorry you experienced that.
OMG! Can you say Lawsuit?? Listen...this happened to me as well, I had my first child at 42...a flawless pregnancy! I was induced as well, and delivered vaginally. My OB did his thing down there, and he left. 15 minutes later I was in a blood bath! Nurses were freaking out, pushing down hard on my stomach, saying "Get Dr. Freedman STAT"!!!! My husband was crying, I was sooo out of it...my OB shows up, I am asked to sign a consent form for a D&C, and possibly hysterectomy...I do so, then am rushed to the OR for an emergency D&C. I too had to have a blood transfusion. When I asked my OB what happened he said it could have been a number of things but danced his way around it...I obtained a copy of my med records from the hospital several months later, and apparantly there was a retained product left. My husband wanted to sue! After the hell I went through and the care I received-Ii was livid. I had hoped for such a beautiful delivery experience and I got a frickin nightmare! I recently had a consult with a female high risk OB and she said the best way to prevent that from happening again is to have a planned csection. I could talk for the next hour about all of this, but mainly I wanted you to know that I experienced the same thing you did, but not to your degree. I would look into seeking counsel to represent yourself...I hear too many stories like this, and it seems like the OBs/staff always have their buts covered one way or another by juggling their take in the medical report and such! Please take care, and feel free to mail me back!!