Ok, my insurance company calle dthis morning with a lot of questions about my pregnancy, beings Im high risk. They are going to keep a close eye on me :) Anyway, I was chatting with the lady and was telling her about how my last 3 pregnancies (that ended w. a baby) I dilated at about 5-6 months and walked around at 5-6 cm for about a month. She said she couldnt believe I wasnt diagnosed with an incompetant cervix, butmaybe since they all went to term, thats why. Shoot, with my 5th, I went to the hospital (cuz my doc told me too) and I was at 7-8 with no contractions. After they broke my water, they came on though :) With my last I was at about 6 for about 3-4 weeks and when I went in labor, I stayed home as long as possible got to hospital and my "aches" stopped but i was at 10cm and ready to go. So does anyone that constitutes incomp. cervix? Im going to ask my doc, but figured I dask you ladies too. Thanks for any help!