No foetal pole

[Baves]

Hi if there is no foetal pole showing at 8wks and 3days is there something to be alarmed about?please help me with this question

[cutter1974]

It sounds like you aren't in the best of situations. I am so sorry you are having such a tough time.  
How long have you and your husband been together?
It must be tough living with your inlaws. Have you thought of maybe getting your husband to move you all out of his parents place and get a place of your own?  Or maybe you really need to re-evaluate your relationship and decide if you love him enough to stay and if he loves you enough to work this out.

[Baves]

Hi thanks to you all.hey cutter I'm so excited and happy for you both a boy wow and don't worry everything will be fine.im goin through so much at this moment I just don't want to be in this house and I regret that I married him Im even resenting his parents.we live them so I don't have time to myself and if I'm quiet she thinks it's about her.shes selfish I feel like leaving or doin something stupid at times.they just don't get it.she keeps telling me in stupid and to move on.i don't know what to do.im in my room with my son right now cause that's the only place I get to be on my own.

[kittkatt5664]

I hope you come back with an update. I really feel for you. I don't think I would have had d ands c if I hadn't had all the signs of miscarriage.

[kittkatt5664]

I hope you come back with an update. I really feel for you. I don't think I would have had d ands c if I hadn't had all the signs of miscarriage.

[cutter1974]

We went for the ultrasound today and the baby was squirming quite a bit and it took over an hour for it to reveal its gender. We are having a boy :) everything looked normal, and on schedule he was showing 19 weeks, and that is exactly what he should be.

[tryingtocope39]

Sorry, stupid spell check! Its supposed to be *blood clotting*.