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10502025 tn?1410614204

Praying every day for my little MAN

At 11 weeks I began to spot and we discovered I have a week cervix and at 13 weeks I had a cerclage procedure. I'm 22 weeks pregnant and the baby is measuring 2 weeks behind after another sonogram 2 weeks later he only grew 2 days. All blood work came back fine his heart has a little fluid around it but not a lot to be alarmed and the wall of his heart is a little thick but nothing alarming. His heartbeat is strong at 150bpm. The doctor say it doesn't look good when they are small this early in the pregnancy and they are asking me to do an amniocentesis but I am nervous. One had a prior miscarriage 2 days after having one and I am Not sure if that was the cause of it.Two I wouldn't end the pregnancy if the results are not 100% .WE ARE STRONG I am worried about my son.
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Hope everything turns out fine and you have a strong healthy boy xx
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My sincerest condolences to you and your husband.. How devastating news...
Stay strong!!
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I'm so so sorry I know words want comfort you right now but in do time they will. Prayer heals and im praying for you I have had 3 miscarriages and one stillborn. I know how u feel
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Oh how my heart breaks for u n ur husband..i pray the Lord gives u comfort n peace in this time..until u r reunited w ur precious baby soon..
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I am sorry I ment to say Gods Angel
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Sorry for your loss I pray that the GOd heal your family.. rip kitties angel
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I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you both and give you the strength through this hard time. X
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I am so sorry for your loss . I am only 7 weeks and this is one if my biggest fears.  God bless you and your husband at this time in need .
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Omg! I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless him and your family. My most sincerest condolences.
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I would like to thank everyone for all of the kind words and prayer.  
This morning at 7:15am I learned that my son had no heart rate. Yesterday the doctors told me that he had more fluid around his heart and they believe he had heart failure. I am at a lost for words and the pain in my heart is unbelievable. My husband and I are trying to be STRONG. Chase Michael Douglas will always be in our hearts.
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I had no testing done.  I was the same as you.  The only thing that is to consider is that if there is anything they can do to help your baby if need be when born, that would be good to know.  I'd give birth to any baby and love them fully and care for then as best I could regardless of the issue . . .   but I would want doctors to be able to help him if he needed it right away.  Does that make sense?  So, I didn't have testing but my doctor never told me there was something they needed to look for.  I would go with your gut after talking it over with your partner.  good luck hon and I will certainly say BIG prayers.  hugs
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Praying for you & Lil Man!
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Good luck small things add up to big worry. Each thing you are having by it self is not so bad but with all the little things wrong with you is kinda scary. Hope things work out for you and your little one.
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I'm saying a pray too. Go with your gut feeling. Tell the doctor how you feel. Never be ashamed to get a second opinion
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I'm saying a pray too. Go with your gut feeling. Tell the doctor how you feel. Never be ashamed to get a second opinion
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Follow your heart. Best of luck to you and yours..
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Praying for you two! I wouldn't do Amnio either. Especially since you can't rule out that it wasn't the cause of your other loss. Be strong and keep your faith. When I was given unsettling news early in my pregnancy I read Psalms 139 daily. It talks about being covered in a mothers womb. God has the power to do anything big or small! Just trust him! Today I'm waiting to give birth to my beautiful healthy son, any time now!
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I pray the Lord helps you through this and that your little man arrives at the appointed time safe and healthy. Be positive and follow that gut feeling, women usually are good at sensing these things. If your heart isn't in having the procedure then there probably is a reason for it. May God strengthen you and protect you both. Take care x
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Follow your feelings! If you decided you are going to have it, that is all what it matters. Praying for your baby. Try to kept calm. Best wishes for your pregnancy.
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