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Rant ....lazy partner

Not a question exactly ..It's more of a rant ..
Due any day as the pregnancy has progressed my partner has caught a terrible condition of lazyitus ..And he's getting on my nerves ..With  hormones raging I am becoming more and more irritated.
I pictured a completely different partner ..someone running about in the later stages ..waiting on my every need !
This is the total opposite to what I am receiving. ...I wish I had enough energy to kick him up the butt right now ..but I save the energy to labour day ....There will be lots of hand crushing even if I don't feel the need too ..I will any way !
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My partner was awesome in my first pregnancy. Now I just want to smack him to wake up.  My biggest thing is just help me with the things I can't do. We both work so I expect him to help.  On his days off I make a list of things I need him to do.  He had the balls to leave ME a list of things he wanted me to do. It wasn't even a to do list.  All it had was what he did and like 2 things he had for me (which I do all the time). I'm 37 +5. It gets harder to do things sound the house but he thinks I'm wonder woman.
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Hormones don't help but I know what you mean :p
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Have you asked for help or talked to your men about this? They are not mind readers but lots will help when you ask for it. Ask him why he is not helping more and how much you would appreciate it if he would. Men just are clueless usually.
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Lol I feel you girl my first pregnancy he was very involved , understanding, and helpful but this time around not so much catering not that he's not involved but no where near as before ....let's face it men are inconsiderate bet you any money if they were able to carry babies they wouldn't be able to handle it Lol god forbid they get a cold they want to be waited on 24/7 Lol men can't live with em can't live without em smh
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Ha ha.. just tonight ive had a fall out with my partner.. its not going very well and im still awake while he sleeps :)
I feel like giving up really.. being pregnant has made me see him in a way i would rather not .
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