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Thanks for your support

Just want to thank everyone for their support.  I was approximately 6 weeks along, but last night I miscarried.  I am 41 one and was absolutley stunned to find out I was pregnant.  We have been waiing to see a heartbeat so I have been trying to remain cautiously optimistic.  Guess that did not work, cause I am devastated today.  Just keep crying at the drop of a hat.  Guess I was much for excited than I let myself believe.  

I just want to thank everyone for their notes of support and encouragement up to this point.  I wish you all the best with your preganancies, and would still love to get updates and give my support.  

God Bless,
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1129232 tn?1360800358
HI jackie, I'm so sorry for your loss. I also just had a miscarriage. I was just under 8 weeks pregnant and the baby had no heartbeat and had stopped growing. I felt the same as you. i was crying at the drop of a hat. this happened earlier this month and I still have moments where i feel despair but I'm hopeful for another pregnancy. Although this one took us nearly 2 years of trying on our own and then IVF.  Please hang in there. it gets better each day.
1150573 tn?1261964987
Hi jackie,

I wanted to let you know Im sorry for your loss... I know it's not easy.  My DH , and I just went through the same think last yr . I found out I was pregnant , and I was really suprised bc we did not thnk we were ever going to get pregnant.. Pls dont give up, bc we are not . I pray every night that God will bless us with a little one.. I believe things happen for a reason.. Soooo let it all out , and then keep trying ..God Bless you , and your family....Mary...:)
1345697 tn?1430619021
Just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. Prayers for the strength you need to get through these next few days and weeks.
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Im sorry for your loss.....I know its hard for u right now. Two years ago I found out I was pregnant (1st) and we were truly excited....well I found out that it was Ectopic and that was devastating. Like I said I know its hard because I can remember it like it was yesterday, just stay strong and dont give up! I will b praying for u and your family....
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sorry for your loss..me and my dh just lost a baby june 4.....hardest thing i had to ever go through, but with evreyones encouragement on here I am doing alot better...........
1293683 tn?1334019210
I am so sorry for your huge loss .. it is such a devastating thing to go through and as much as you try not to get your hopes up .. it is impossible not to.  We lost our baby 3 weeks ago at 11.5 weeks and am now finally starting to feel better but will always carry the hurt.

good luck in getting through this and ttc again
Avatar universal
I am sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you and your family.
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