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284738 tn?1283106819

Ugh! I hate "those" looks that I get....

Me and my boyfriend went out to eat lunch and I swear every person looked at us when we walked into the resturant.. my belly is getting bigger but its seperated into two bumps so I think people dont know whether im really fat or pregnant. And I get those looks from the skinny girls like... ew shes fat... and I know thats exactly what they are thinking... lol I just want to go up to her and say "Eat for goodnes sakes" lol My boyfriend said Im crazy and no one was giving me a particular look...  I also gained weight in my back.... has anyone else gained weight there... so im round in the back too... and that sucks... but hey look at the bright side only 10 1/2 more weeks too go and my beautiful princess will be here :o)
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148691 tn?1260194903
awee Tanker! i know what you mean! i feel the same way! i get doors opened for me, i get preference to walk first... i am treated like a queen! i think im gonna very much miss that! i am the preggy lady that waddles thru the hallways here... after Maddie is born...i'll be just another regular person again... =(

I am trying to enjoy my belly as much as i can!!!!

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I think all my extra weight has gone to my backside. Luckily the big maternity shirts are doing a pretty good job hiding all the junk in my trunk, so only me and my family see it. As for my 34 week belly, I've only had one person say I look small, everyone else who has made a comment says I look like I'm due any minute.

I do love being pregnant and don't mind any of the extra weight or big baby belly. However, I may change my mind in about 4 more weeks!  :-)
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I did not look like this my 1st time around, I looked just fat. and I sooo badly wanted to have that pregnant belly....
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284738 tn?1283106819
awee mamaofone you have a cute belly :o) Im so jealous.. I was hoping by now it would fill out to one big belly but it hasnt so it looks like im just extremly overweight..  
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189192 tn?1261341628
I always thought people were staring at me when I was preggo to but not because i was fat.  I just think people love pregnant ladies.  People were always smiling and watching me.  Now that jacob is born, I walk around and I'm just a reglar person again.  Nobody special :)  

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I know how you are feeling, I know what you are talking about the "two bumps" With my 1st i had this bad and it never "really" went away.(sorry) I just tryed to wear bigger mat. t-shirt so you couldnt see the bumps, only the 1st one. If you know what I mean? I gain weight in my back as well.......I always have that "back fat"......
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284738 tn?1283106819
yup Im 29 weeks now so hopefully Ill go at 40 weeks or before :o)
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178590 tn?1294176767
OMG wow you don't have much longer to go I'm praying to make it at least another 12 weeks
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