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2146732 tn?1418849107

Wanting sooo bad.

I can not remember a time I wanted to be pregnant so bad! Now I can't be :(. My tubes are tied. My fiancé &i are hoping on a miracle.(spelled wrong,i know). We well I want it to be all natural,but we might just have to go with invitro, we'll see what happens, we're gonna keep trying though.
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2146732 tn?1418849107
I know but it's very costly. We're just gonna keep hoping for a miracle & trying old school.
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IVF is the way to go am in the process.
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Congrats! I was so happy to read your comment today, you give me hope. I am 39 and just had a tubal reversal done two weeks ago and I was devistated to hear that he could only reconnect one tube. Thank you for some much needed inspiration and good luck!
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you dont always have to get reversed there are ways i know someone tubed burned and she carried and gave birth it works better with invetro then reversal same as man reversal almost never works
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2146732 tn?1418849107
Thank you I know. Its been almost 9 years. &yes we going to keep trying itd slso good exercise :) thank you again.
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Technically the other comments aren't 100% true..I work @ a drs office & we have had a few patients get pregnant with their tubes tied. The longer it has been since the procedure the % of preventing pregnancy declines. Average is 6-9 yrs later when most of them concieved. I say more power to you & keep trying even if u have to have a reversal, nothing can come close to replacing the experience of bn pregnant & having children. We all take risks every day, even just crossing the street. So if bn pregnant is what u yearn for then good luck to you & I hope it happens!
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2146732 tn?1418849107
Yes I know all this. Did u not see me mention invitro? I know about the risks.
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roswangelina is right.  if you want to get pregnant, you have to have your tubal ligation reversed.  i had mine done almost 2 years ago and spent about 5k.  they were only able to reconnect one side.  now i'm pregnant and due in feb at age 41.

it can be done!
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2149304 tn?1447810962
Also even with that being said you will be high risk for an ectopic pregnancy.
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U cant get prego when your tubes are tied if u want things to happen u have to get your tube untied
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