What do you fear

[melimeli]

Last night I had a mini panic attack in the middle of the night...  Thinking OMG I am about to bring a little girl into this world... Now I have 2 and got a divorce (spouse cheated) and I don't want to be divorced again.  Panicking about what I would do if this happened and I had to raise 3 girls on my own...  the consequences it would have on them... now there is no reason for me to fear this other than the history with my ex and pg hormones...  then I started worrying about giving birth and all that can go wrong and if I am going to be able to nurse... well it turned into a night of worry haha...  Are you guys worrying about anything?

[AshleysMom]

I know!  Same with this one.  I can't breath!  

[tahariel]

My worries are being able to manage enough quality time to consistently share with all 3 children, and saving enough for college for them and retirement for us. Luckily those are still years away, but everyone says we have to be saving for it all now. Yikes!

[melimeli]

wow you carried high!

[AshleysMom]

OK, but don't laugh too hard.  This is me preg with DD.  I look about the same right now but a little older, a little uglier. Oh, and my boobs are much better:)

http://i226.photobucket.com/albums/dd35/AshleysMom2/Ashleypreg.jpg

[poupoune26]

OMG, since they told me this week that my baby is BIGGER than usual..I fear the delivery!  I keep thinking about how painful it will be..I'm also very worried that there will be complications...arrgh!  I just want it to be behind me already!  LOL

Melanie 32w5d

[Tennesseegirl]

ashleysmom... I would love to see a picture of you!!! I have this image.. but then again.. befor the photo album came out.. we all were shocked and had diffrent thoughts.???

are you blonde like ashley? You are crazy funny. would be courious to see if my image is right..


Every week.. these days I have diffrent worrys.... Not going to go there about my age!! would end up writing a fricken book. but my biggest the past few days have been having her early!! The nurse looked at me today and said wow.. it wont be long now.. I bet you cant wait.. and I said oh yes I can.. she can stay in there for another couple of months.. IM not ready!!!  but I would hate for her to come this early.. I want her in there for atleast 38w-39w .. maybe then I can relax?

[AshleysMom]

Oh yea, I also worry about how my body is going to look after this one.  Shallow, I know.  Boobs should be OK after my lift and implants but my stomach is going to look like one of those Charpay (SP)? dogs.  

Does it get a lot worse after #2?

[AshleysMom]

My worries of the day are birth defects and SIDS.  Next week it will be something else.

I worry a little about DH, since all of my stupid MCs have taken their toll on our marriage.  We've seen a councelor and things seem to be back on track but a newborn can be challenging to any relationship.  My DH is an A$$&0L3 when he doesn't get enough sleep.  I am bracing myself!

[40smama]

I too worry about those bills!!  My dh's taking paternity leave but of course it's w/a pay cut - aauggh!!  The thing that's worrying me the most of all is what my almost grown children are up to - I have no control or very little say-so over them!!  I should have the 'freedom' to worry about my new baby :-(((.

[guinness413]

bills and that my water will break either in a public place or in the middle of the night and there will be no one there to watch my son when I have to go to the hospital

[pinkbelle]

Isnt it a shame that a country like the united states doesnt even offer us a paid maternity leave... I think almost all of the other countries too.. aparently our society doesnt value us :o(  It really makes me mad

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

amen to the bills I worry about those too....

[pinkbelle]

omg I am full of worries... first time mom and all.. I worry something will go wrong in the delivery room... I worry about the cord... I worry that I wont be a good mom and I worry about how we can pay our bills while Im off on maternity leave ... Im a worry wart :o)

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

yes I'm worried all the time that my babies will come to early and they won't be able to nurse......

and I worry that what if they come at a good time and I don't have enough milk or better than that what if I don't have any....I so desperatly want to be able to BF them

[valleybabes]

Gosh Meli I think crazy like that too sometimes.  Picture this.....I worry about me ...just me... being like the happiest mama alive with a sixteen and a twenty year old plus a new baby on the way.  Now time to go into delivery and have my baby with my daughter there and BF there also......just then I start to breath heavily, and even more heavily to where I pass out and they try and revive me and I don't wake up!  That scares the holy sh!t out of me!!!  What would happen to my baby girl (sixteen year old)  I wouldnt want her to go to her real father that
would look at her like a dollar sign!  My son would be in complete tears and my BF would be stuck with a baby and not knowing exactly what to do(his first child) I start crying and breathing heavily just thinking of that happening to me.....my worst fear ever!!!!!