could i have gotten pregant earlier?

[bokerb]

I had sex with someone other than my husband on Feb 8th. Had a normal period period Feb 15. Had sex with my husband numerous times between Feb 20 and feb 25. My boobs seemed more swollen than normal on Feb 28 and I began having morning sickness on March 13th. I wasn't worried because i had a period after feb 8th encounter but my best friend says i couldn't have been feeling symptoms so soon and now im sooo concerned i might be pregnant by someone other than my husband. Any advice/opinion would be greatly appreciated

[Michellemom]

Just don't waste your time and energy on someone like this. She SHOULD be worried...it is wrong plain and simple to cheat...and there is a price to pay...plain and simple........

Blessings,
Michelle

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I'd say more than likely your sore breast on the 28th were b/c you were Oing and Morning sickness around the 13 would make more since for your DH to be the father ......so good luck and hope all goes well.

[Regggie]

It's not a real post....seems you can tell now. Anyway, I judge.

[AshleysMom]

A blood test or ultrasound might give you an idea of how far along you are.

Have you taken an HPT?

Is this a real post?

[adgal]

I actually think the majority of the women on here are pretty non judgemental.  I know my personal theory is live and let live, as long as you don't cause hurt to others.  Coming on to a public forum and talking about an affair outside of your commitment is bound to lead to some shock and you have to know your going to get some negative feedback.  I personally think its a bunch of bull, and someone just looking for attention and to get others riled.  I don't think anyone was so much judging, just stating that it is wrong to have an affair....as meli said, just like crimes are wrong.  If she is telling the truth, she has potentially caused a lot of hurt, and that is wrong.  Plain and simple.  If you want to cheat, leave first, otherwise as someone stated, whats the point of being married.

[melimeli]

could have been implantation bleeding and not a period..

and to ang927:

WE all judge even you.. we judge murderers, molesters and adulterers...  We are supposed to judge right from wrong and let it be known that is how we stay a civilized society.  Without that how do we teach our children and monitor our peers and stay a civilized society... I cannot stand it when people act like we are not supposed to judge... we are and ALL do... God wrote the 10 commandments to give us a guide of what is right and wrong and we are to use it...

matthew 7:
“Do not judge so that you will not be judged. 2 “For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you.


just says that we will be judged by the same measure... in other words not to be a hypocrite..

[ang927]

Seems there is quite a bit of judgement out there.  You didn't ask for judgement, you asked for input about how your body works.  Was your period on the 15th of normal duration and intensity?  If so, you are probably not pregnant by the earlier encounter.  Your period is generally the breaking down of the egg and the uterine lining, and if the egg from that cycle is gone, there is no pregnancy.  Stranger things have happened, but not often.

I assume you have tested and know you are pregnant, so have you had an ultrasound, which will help to give you an age of the pregnancy?    Good luck.

[valleybabes]

Why in the world would you put yourself in that situation? Good luck!

[2wonderfulboys]

Why would you even cheat?  Come clean with your husband that's the least you could do and then have a DNA test to see, if you are going to cheat with another man then why are you married in the first place?

[adgal]

Its possible to have bleeding like a period while pregnant, and its also possible to have symptoms early.  Only a DNA test will say for sure.  Maybe you should come clean with your husband now and hope he's forgiving.

[alikat1205]

it appears you have a 26 day cycle.  therefore on feb 8 it is likely you had already ovulated that month, since it was only 7 days before your period.  having sex feb 20-25, means that on feb 25, you were on cycle day 10, and ovulation was expected on cycle day 12.  you had morning sickness on march 13, when your period was due.  early for some, normal for others.  i think your baby is your husband's, but its just a guess.  that's one reason for not messing around.  i wish you the best of luck.  you will need it.

[Regggie]

ya, it's someone elses baby. Good luck with that.

[ChrisHealy]

eww.

[melimeli]

ummm not cheat in the first place!!!!