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I've been dating this guy for 4 years now. We had a son last year. Our second son is due in one week and he cheated on me with another girl and left us a week before our second was due.. he tells this other girl that the second baby is not his.. when he dosnt deny the baby to me or his parents... I guess he's been seeing her for a few months now. She strongly believes that it's not his and me and him havnt been together for 2 years. He comes around somtimes to take his son to the park. But I was just wondering.. how am I supposed to handle this..emotionally
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Aw.. I feel sorry for u hon... *hug*
If possible. .... get the DNA results. ... show it to his woman....and kick out this jerk from your life. He doesn't deserve you!!
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Iam with mariya on this get a DNA test done and show them and then be done with it..
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What If he won't agree to it?
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Do you have any combs or brushes he used? They may be able to use a piece of his hair for dna testing... I might be totally wrong but maybe...
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If he won't agree. Court can force it. You will need legal aid help otherwise that will cost you money. A mate of mine went thru the same. Her ex saying the baby isn't his and he refused a dna test because he knew it was his and didn't want his woman to believe my mate. Court forced him to do it. It's like a warrant.
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Yeah, I'd be expending my pent up rage by organizing court orders and taking his pathetic *** for all he's got.
Also, try keep yourself in good company, with friends or family, or join a single mom's community for support.
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