disappointment

[sha_staley]

Im 8w4d with number 3 its been 10 years since I had a baby.. my husband is a jerkface and we are now separated. I started bleeding monday night, and have had to switch Dr's due to lack of care.. which im loving the new Dr but he burst my vbac bubble says because I had open heart surgery when I was 4 no OB should have ever let me attept a vaginal delivery EVER which I tried with my first but I stopped dialating and he got stuck so emergency c section it was.. was duppose to do a vbac with my second but because they were 15 mos apart i couldnt. Just venting

[sha_staley]

He is the new OB... maybe he will change his mind if he doesnt im ok with it still have a ways to go not due till april

[wayfunmommy]

I agree. New doctor

[KitnRod14]

Your kidding? Time to switch OB. I had a heart surgery at 2. Maybe ask your ob to do ecg test like I got my Dr to do tge same thing. All was fine. I gave birth naturally to a little boy! If your heart is fixed and there's no present or recent problems then your fine. But with vbac Dr won't allow unless yur last baby was more then 13 months old. But that's in my country so unsure where your from

[irinasmb]

Same here, I am bummed that my doc won't let me do a vback.  I had two previous c-sections and the doc refuses to try, but then again, all I want is a safe delivery and healthy baby, so I am not sure if pursuing my wants is logical.