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5864651 tn?1396931970

just visiting

Im only 18 but thought id come for abit of a nosy (hope you dont mind) your group is so relaxing compared to the other groups your all so nice and calm its lovely just wanted to say looking at your group put a smile on my face with how helpful and caring you all are to eachother hope your all well and having great pregnancys xx
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5864651 tn?1396931970
Im 20w pregnant by the way
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Welcome to the group :)
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I am 49, turning 50 in October.  I divorced last year, after a nasty two-year divorce process with my ex of 15 years.  We have two wonderful and beautiful sons.  My high school sweetheart and I just found out we were pregnant.  PREGNANT!  I'm scared but love the idea of another child.  My fears are: my sons will reject the option; I don't want to marry the father; how will everyone judge me and the baby; birth defects and raising a special-needs baby at my age and the possible effects on my sons, etc...
I need support and am keeping this a secret until  I can have an amnio to determine health.
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I am 49, turning 50 in October.  I divorced last year, after a nasty two-year divorce process with my ex of 15 years.  We have two wonderful and beautiful sons.  My high school sweetheart and I just found out we were pregnant.  PREGNANT!  I'm scared but love the idea of another child.  My fears are: my sons will reject the option; I don't want to marry the father; how will everyone judge me and the baby; birth defects and raising a special-needs baby at my age and the possible effects on my sons, etc...
I need support and am keeping this a secret until  I can have an amnio to determine health.
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1. How far along are you? 2. Don't worry about what society or anyone is thinking of you for not marrying your baby's daddy. As long as y'all love the baby and take care of the baby it's no one's business. Enjoy your miracle and your man.
6926872 tn?1386186835
couldnt have worded it any better (: really good advice
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Great thing is during the first trimester and the second they have an ultrasound that goes along with blood work that may be almost as reliable as amnio yet less evasive (ask your doctor).

Also as far as Baby Daddy so long as the two of you can co-parent greatly that's the main issue.   It's all in the communication and how well you can work together during the times when you don't like each other as much.
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Great thing is during the first trimester and the second they have an ultrasound that goes along with blood work that may be almost as reliable as amnio yet less evasive (ask your doctor).

Also as far as Baby Daddy so long as the two of you can co-parent greatly that's the main issue.   It's all in the communication and how well you can work together during the times when you don't like each other as much.
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