Don't know what to do!

[Pattymommyof3]

So lately me n my bf been arguing because he's always running around with his friends. All his friends are scumbags liars and cheaters so it bothers me that he hangs with them but still I manage to give him trust to go out! Last nite he didn't come home doesn't pick up my calls I don't know where he's at I went by his friends he told me he left he's not home I don't know what to do!!! As much as I tell him it bothers me what he does he says nothing is good enough for me !

[Pattymommyof3]

So he texted me at 7 in the am saying he fell asleep in his car by his other friends house but I know he's lying because I went to the friends house at 4 in the am the friend said he left 30 mins ago but this guy lives 3 houses down car was nowhere around so he's a liar n to be like i fell asleep it's such a bad morning! Really ? That's the best he came up with. Then later he tells me he doesn't care I'm never happy n he didn't do anything still never came back to even talk to me

[kat730]

Did he make it home

[azmommy711]

Hopefully he just got arrested lol and isn't with another girl

[LadiiDadi]

I completely understand. My bf started this behavior when i was around 3months And my cousin went thru the same thing. It's like men freak out n go crazy not realizing what Thier doing to us and the unborn child... I'm actually due in 6 days and i had to get away from him because the behavior just got worst n i realized i have to put the well being of me n my child first. If he wants to mess up now then he's going to have to deal with the consequences by himself. And he is. So my advice is distance urself so he knows ur serious and gets it together.(even tho it's extremely hard). Just focus on u n the baby. Keep yourself busy. Surround yourself with supportive friends and try not to stress out over him. Men r stupid, clueless, and self-centered. If he's gonna come around its because he sees u struggling to do the best for ur child and by his own voluentude will come to his scenses. But i know it's hard. Trust me i do. Just keep ur chin up. Better days r sure to come