worried about being pregnant at 48

[saraper]

hi, I am 48 years old and wound-up pregnant by accident.  I thought I was going through menopause and had unprotected sex.  My life was good until now. Any advice for me?

[Pretty7]

Thank you so much for that wonderful advise.
God bless you for the good counsel.
Pretty

[Betsy48]

Menopause or pregnancy.. getting test to find out.  Age 48, regular menses, just started getting hot flashes but only for a few weeks, and now no period for over 2-1/2 months (beginning 3rd month late), no more hot flashes.  Only 1 other pregnancy at age 42, ectopic, tube removed and other tube was supposed to have tubal ligation at that time ... will keep all informed .. mixed feelings, but would be happy after 24 years of marriage to finally have a child, we have no children and the ectopic was a big loss for us.  Interested in finding out if other 48 year old had successful pregnancy and was there a prior tubal ligation.

[teepee12]

I wholeheartedly agree w/ur comments!  I am on the way to 47 in  a few months and really wanted to have a baby w/my hubby of 4 years.  We already both have kids in their 20's, but it looks like my eggs and progesterone won't cooperate. Only my natural doctor and another lady were wholeheartedly in support of me.  Everyone else seemed "mad" that I would even DESIRE a child at this age.  So I am processing through the acceptance stage. Unfortunately adoption isn't an option because we don't meet all the requirements : (.  I pray your prayers are answered...blessings to you!

[Lisa773]

Having a baby is a gift. I only wish I could get pregnant. I know all the risks but if I could get pregnant and have a chance at having a biological child, I would consider it a gift from God. I wouldn't be sad or mad or anything but HAPPY! If you take care of yourself and your baby, I believe you'll be fine. Remember, miracles can happen and with God you can do ALL things...ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. For those of us who have tried a long time to get pregnant, I for one consider it an insult when I hear someone upset because they have the wonderful opportunity to give the gift of life! Congratulation on being pregnant at 48 or any age. I only hope and wish the same for myself.

[mrsT48]

i am 48 years old and want to have a baby but because of my age and the my health issues my doctor wont take the risk and treat me. by the way my health issue is lupus

[rasmussen]

Hi i am 48 years old and thinking of havine another baby under ivf this is my second marrage and my husband is an only child and has never had any children of his own ***TERRIFIED*** my daughter 23 is going to donate one of her eggs as i do not ovalate any more we have been threw all the procedures for this, the doctor we are under is fantastic and has been sending me to specialist for my high blood preasure whitch is under  control  now  what do i have to look out for please advice.