Breakdown :(

[lisa0114]

Hi everyone i just needed to write how i feel right now. I am miserable tired of being pregnant and i feel like nobody cares or understands that i am pregnant or how i feel. I feel like i am alone sometimes and i don't know how much more i can take. I am ready to just give up :( I know i only got a couple more weeks but it's getting really hard for me. Sorry to vent to you guys but i didn't know where else to turn.

[April162010]

hang in there lisa!... soon will be over and you will have your babies in your arms!

I feel like that sometimes and I am only 5 months (aghhh!)  and i make liek a big circus about it (heheehehehe) so when i get their attention  i feel better (Oh lord what i have become...lol)

My DH is the first one to pay for it, i make him feel like its not fair that i have to carry the baby and not him and its very rude of him not to understand what i need at  that moment..so DH runs to do anything i ask for it......lol...poor  i love my DH...lol

anytime you feel like you are going to explode do it here..in our forum  we will be here to help you..xoxo
April

[lisa0114]

kellym- Yeah i so need some me time & thanks for the birthday wishes.

Azwoman-Yeah i know how lucky i am to be having this baby when some women cant carry and for this i feel blessed and grateful!!!

Shuga1109-Thanks i am only trying to concentrate on me and my baby right now but sometimes everything is just to much. I don't if it's my hormones right now or what.I know how blessed i am to be having this baby and what a gift she is going to be.

happynifer- I can't wait to hold my angel in my arms. Thanks i am trying to hang in there.

Jhanee- that's exactly what i am doing thinking about getting everything ready for the baby and how i want everything to be done when she comes home.


mol6541- Thanks for the birthday wishes!! yeah i am trying to take it one day at a time.

trying43- I am glad to hear someone is there with me. I know i am not alone but i just had to vent.Men don't understand how we feel. I am still working a full time job and i am so miserable and tired by the time i get home i dont want to do anything and its like nobody cares.

oceanv-I love being pregnant because i know what a precious gift i have inside me and how lucky i am to be having her. Yeah the indigestion that just started but only seems to happen at night and the urination all night and not sleeping and not to mention the pelvic pain  that keeps me up all night i could do without.I know i only got a short time to go and i know i am not alone but sometimes its just to much.

[oceanv]

I'm sorry you're having a hard time, i hated being pregnant - longest nine months (thankfully she was three weeks early I couldn't have taken much more of the bp worries, the indigestion, the no sleep (although that was nothing compared to after the birth - ugh), the insulin injections etc....) of my life ....... you'll get through it, take it easy.

Joanne

[trying43]

Sorry you are miserable, I am 34 weeks and I am there with you.  My dh even made the comment that lots of pregnant women hold down full time jobs and everything else and you cant even manage for one day.  Ummm I hit the roof.  I told him go get you one of them then lol!  (edited version) Go get a pedicure and have some pampering time for just yourself.   Not much longer and you'll have that beautiful little baby in your arms.  Good luck to you.

[mol6541]

It will all be over soon. Take one day at a time and one moment at a time that's all you can do. If you can get some me time that would be great!!!  Get a manicure, peticure or massage. Just think of you.

Btw happy birthday!!

[Jhanee]

I know how you feel and I know many people that have felt the same way. The best thing is to relax. Get a nice massage or find a place and  sit and relax and do not think about the baby or how much longer you have to wait. The day is coming quicker than you know. I felt the same way before I had my girls and then I blinked and they were born. Looking back I now know I was really thinking to much about all the things that need to be done and how I wanted things to go. Instead enjoy yourself and pamper yourself. I hope you feel better.

[happynifer]

i was miserable the last few weeks, but it seems so long ago now that i am holding my baby girl.  hang in there, you are almost done!

[shuga1109]

Hang in there.  You are blessed to have a little one on the way.  Enjoy pregnancy while you are pregnant.  It will be over before you know it. I know the last couple of months are very uncomfortable, but just think of the joy this baby will bring you once he/she is here!  Does "nobody caring" mean...your job, your family?  Take some deap breaths, ask your OB about Yoga, or anything that can help you relax.  Like Azwoman said, we would love to be in your shoes right now.  Many of us are tired of trying.  Enjoy it and only think about you and your baby right now and not "People".  Good luck.

[Azwoman]

I think alot of us wish we were in your shoes right now. That's all I'm saying. You will be giving birth before you knowit. It's not that bad.  

[kellym]

Yes,  you need some "me" time... If I read correctly, it's your birthday tomorrow :) Happy Early Birthday and go get a pedicure!!