Praying for you. May God send you comfort and strength in this difficult time
I agree with nola. Just try and hang in there. Remember everyday for your little one is one more day of very important growth. So try it just one at a time. Tell yourself, I'm just going to get through today and then deal with tomorrow. Towards the end, every single day is huge growth for the baby. You can do it!
I am pretty sure that the first dating ultrasound is more accurate than the date of your LMP - this is because most women do not conceive exactly 14 days after your LMP, which is what would have to happen for that date to be accurate. For example, I know that I ovulate 10 days after my LMP and not 14, so using the date of my LMP, would not be accurate for me.
I can only imagine how miserable you are, but I would try to hang in there. I don't think that the doctors would be delaying labor just because of his size - they must be pretty sure about the dates. It is best for the baby to stay where he is for the next 3 weeks - I know you are hurting but 3 more weeks of suffering is better than a lifetime of suffering for him (and you) if he has any complications from coming early - so try to think of it that way and it may help. Also, I am pretty certain that he would already be addicted at this point - again another reason for him to stay where he is and get a little bigger before birth. Have you discussed your concerns with your doctor? I would be open with him/her.
Hang in there - you are stronger than you think.
Oh, and congrats on your little boys - boys are pretty wonderful
Oh my I will pray that God eases your pain and that your baby boy is healthy and delivered on time
I don't have any advice only well wishes and prayers.