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Hi im 36weeks pregnant tomorrow in my unborn father haven't been there since i been pregnant im so mad idk wat to do anymore i have 5kids at home in they father don't help out anymore couse he has a new gurl friend so im taken care of 5 kids bills etc..im thinking bout given my bby up for adoption what should i do
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Adoption may be a great option for your situation. Reach out to a local crisis pregnancy center and have a consultation to educate yourself about the process. There are many options when it comes to adoption. Think and pray and you'll make the right decision. Good luck to you both!
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I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. Just think about who is more important, your baby or the father. Being in a stressful situation can make you think irrationaly and make a decision you might regret. Try to look at your life in a year from now. Where do you want to be? Who do you want surrounding you? Live your life to mold your vision. Don't settle for anythingless than you deserve.
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I'm in a similar situation I know exactly how u feel there are gonna be good days n bad days just know u can do it n a lil bit of faith goes a long way... I'm where u are so trust me when I say u can do it n it's hard to be positive but n my experience positive thinking. Even when u see no light works wonders

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I'm in a similar situation I know exactly how u feel there are gonna be good days n bad days just know u can do it n a lil bit of faith goes a long way... I'm where u are so trust me when I say u can do it n it's hard to be positive but n my experience positive thinking. Even when u see no light works wonders

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You could be suffering from a little depression being in such a ****** situation so don't make any rash decisions and maybe have a chat to your gp about your situation. If you have 5 kiddies I'm sure they all vary in age so start getting them to help you out by giving them little jobs to do to make your life a little easier and try and ask for some support from friends and family. If you don't have many support people around you maybe go down to your local outreach center or church if your religious and ask for a little help or just to talk to someone. Your stronger than your giving yourself credit and your kids will always remember who was the parent that stood by them when the other walked away.
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I agree hang in there women's r strong and babies r a blessing....things will get better
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Hi there I'm sorry to hear what you're going through right now I'm sure it's very hard and fustrating specialy if you're not getting help from the father, but in my opinion it's not the babies fault I'm sure that; that baby wants to grow up with his brothers & sisters you have to have faith that sooner or later things are going to work their way around & everything is going to be like you want them too don't give up hang ib there momms I'll be praying for you
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