Baby blues!

[Kimberlee_20]

Dameon will be 2 in July, and I'm having SUCH baby blues it's unreal. DH says whenever I want to have another one I can, but I want to finish college before I have another. I'm so conflicted though because when I'm completely done with school Dameon will be almost 5, and I didn't really want my children THAT far apart.. Anyone else having similar issues?! Any suggestions?!

[Kimberlee_20]

Yeah I know, I think I'm going to wait a while, my sister in law is about to have a baby so hopefully that will cure some of these baby blues!  I think I'll be better off getting through school rather than trying to raise two babies through school, but I might change my mind, I guess we'll see!

[coffeebuzzedliz]

I get it, I am right there wanting another baby so we decided even though we are not 100% ready we are going forward and we will make ourselves ready :)   I dont want my kids too far apart either, but if that is what happens it wont be the end of the world. Finishing school is a pretty big deal and definatly worth it! its awesome to know that no matter what I can take care of my family and always find a good job! Good luck figuring it all out.  A big house isnt a deal breaker, the good things about babies is they dont need a ton of room at first.

[Kimberlee_20]

My gut is telling me to wait until I've finished college and until Jared and I can settle on buying a house that we think will be big enough for the family we want to have, but my heart breaks every time I see a baby! :( I really don't want my children to be too far apart either! Ugh!

[coffeebuzzedliz]

Its really hard to wait, but you have to do what you think is right. I waited to have kids until I got my masters. It meant I didnt have my first until I was 29, but it was the right thing for me. I also waited until my first was a year before starting to try again. Go with your gut!!