Okay, so i'm 21 weeks pregnant, and unfortunately my stress level has been a little high. If anyone can offer advice or anyone knows about the situation please post a comment!
Okay, so i had unprotected sex at a party with an ex back in May, i think it was in the middle/closer to the end of May, he did *** inside of me, i cannot remember when i got my period before that.. I took a pregnancy test on May 29th that came up negative, and my period started on May 30, i had bad cramps like usual at the beginning of my period, and bled for 5 to 6 days, but it was a lot lighter than usual, i didn't think anything of it because i had gotten the negative pregnancy test the day before it started. I started dating a man that i have been hanging out with casually, also a close friend that i had known for years on June 2 and its been the happiest i have been in my entire life, we had unprotected sex on June 6, and again on June 7, then a couple of days later.. I started to have really strange cramps, that were a minor annoyance around June 21 or 22, then a spot of blood that i'm unsure of the color because i was wearing bright colored underwear and thought i was getting my period a week early so i put a pad or for a day but nothing happened. I'm positive that had to be the implantation! I took a test that came out positive on July 3 I went to the Dr on July 5 and they gave me a due date of March 6. I had an ultrasound at 9 weeks and 5 days which they later told me would have changed my due date to March 11.. but they were going to stick with my gestational age of the due date of March 6 sense it wasn't a significant amount of change. I'm 95% sure it's my boyfriends baby, and i'm trying not to stress about it because i know that's not good for me or the baby, but that 5% of uncertainty is killing me.. he is extremely excited to be a daddy and i'm so scared to tell him because he has been to every appointment with me and it will break my heart to see an ounce of doubt in his eyes, the last thing i want to do is hurt him.. Should i try to get a private moment to speak with my Dr? Any advise is helpful. Thank you for reading..