here's my story: im trying to get pregnant. i had sex on day 17 (Feb. 10th) of my cycle (because that's when i had egg-whitey cervical mucous) & we had sex a few times after that as well. i'm supposed to be starting my period tomorrow. so my cervix (from what i've heard) should be low and hard. Well, my cervix is very high (so high that even my boyfriend [who has big hands] can barely even reach it) & it's also very soft, and closed. my breasts are pretty tender, like when i go down the stairs fast and they bounce a little it hurts. & im moody but those seem to be my only symptoms except for my cervix thing. so it's been 10 days since the first time we had unprotected sex. i took a pregnancy test today and it was a very clear negative. no faint line that would make it positive or anything. just a negative. i guess im just really scared & confused. i want to be pregnant so bad. i mean, if im not we're just gonna keep trying. but i don't know what's going on with my cervix if I'm not pregnant. do you think it was just too early for the test to work. or could it be that I'm really not pregnant?