thanks girls :)
im thinking af is on her way :( i did a test this morning and af is due tomorow and i got a BFN :(((
Im so upset, i just hate this!!!!! LOL
Well I am no expert and I would like to state from the very beginning that checking your cervix is NOT a reliable method in checking for pregnancy but here is my experience. Any time I have checked my cervix before AF was due and ended up being pregnant it was high hard closed and very moucousy, however I have also checked it within a day or two of AF and finding it in the same position and not be pregnant. I can say for sure that one time I felt where it was low and soft, literally blending in with the insides, AF came very soon after - I want to say in less than 24 hours. Now I will also admit I was no and avid checker only because I had read it was not reliable and I didn't want to be messing around in there in case I was pregnant (my own paranoia). But that is my limited experience. Hang in there!!!
Sorry I don't know the answer, but just want to bump it up for you in case other ladies know. I'm so hoping to hear your BFP very soon.