Could I be prego?

[beautyblack819]

A little history...my fiance and I have been together for 7 years!We've been trying to get pregnant since day 1.It hasnt happened yet...this past year we've had 2 come close incidents where my period was over 5 days late, we get a prg test and they have come back negative, and period comes on the next day.We really want this baby to come, so I believe sometimes my mind plays trick on my body b/c I want to be pregnant soo bad!
So now...Oct 12 my period comes on its normal cycle 5 days.Well my next cycle is now due Nov.12;it didnt come on until Nov.19(firday late night 10-11pm)and then its off Sunday morning(2 1/2 days or so)...
People tell me Ive gained weight. Im always tired( but I work and go to school). Im always hungry. Last nite a notice w/a squeeze of the breast this clear liquid leaks out,my nipple has been itching as well...and today that same nipple(left) is itching....im scared b/c we're are now planning our April wedding, I get the news that my dress has come back 2day(it was due to be delieverd until feb)and idk if Im prego....I mean WE want this more than anything....I just dont want to get our hopes up high again and it for nothing....ANY ADVICE???PLEASE HELP!!!

[angela418]

BFP is big fat positive...as in positive pregnancy test.

I have read some posts on medhelp about girls who get their husbands/boyfriends/partners, whatever, to take vitamins and eat certain foods to help with fertility.  You could do some research on that and maybe that kind of thing would help without having to spend money on a specialist.  I'd think it's worth a try at least.  

Keep us posted!  I wish you the best! :-)

[mooboo35]

Have you taken a home pregnancy test recently? If you say you have fluid from your breasts I think it is a little early for it to be pregnancy related. Take a test if you havent then go see your doctor. Good luck

[beautyblack819]

thnx gurl...but no, I have taken a test b/c of the fear of recieving negative results! nd yes we ve spken to my dr about fertility treatments...he has a low sperm count...we havent gone to the specialist b/c of it being expensive, and rit now its just not in the budget....w/him thats another thing that freaks me out...dr said without the treatment  we had 50% chance of concieving if he stop smoking/drinking and excerise...my bff  w/3 kids tells me the first stage of pregancy is denial...and she says I fit in the category!!

Im a little slow and new to the forum...bfp means??

[angela418]

Have you taken a pregnancy test recently?  It may be worth it, if you had a really short period...possible implantation bleeding?  I am not sure though, because I have never experienced that with my pregnancies.  

I think if it were me and I have been trying that long, I would definitely speak with a doctor about fertility options to help the process along, like taking clomid or something, or at least getting your fiance checked out.  My husband did that and a few days after he "gave his specimen sample" so to speak, we found out we were pregnant!  We had been trying for 8 months with one chemical pregnancy.  

Oh, and as far as the nipples leaking, the ONLY time that has happened to me was at the very end of my 1st pregnancy, and then continuing of course when I started breastfeeding my son once he was born and then last week (I am now 14 weeks pregnant) I noticed a bit of leakage and now if I squeeze my nipples I can make it come out...of course, I'd rather it not until I am nursing again, though!  I JUST stopped nursing my one year old son two months ago!  

Best of luck to you and I hope you get your BFP soon!  And, best wishes with your wedding, too..what an exciting time for you! :-)