Don't want a babyshower!!

[Miaferkoo]

So my mother in law wants to throw me one and I don't want one & she already knows but wants to do it anyway I have no family where I live it's basically just me and my one aunt .. And she knows that too it's so fustrsting I don't know how to stop her from doing it and we have eveything we need  so annoyed ughhh!!!!!! I'm 34weeks btw

[mommaDof3]

I think you should go.  Just makes sure to tell her that you already have the necessities fir the baby right now and ask for larger size clothes, diapers, maybe things that aren't really needed but would be fun or nice to have. Just things that could be used. Or maybe you can donate whatever you don't need to a  orphanage or something of that sorts.  Make it a charity event or for the babies in foster care where you live.

[LeighaMurphy13]

Dont stress over it. Let her know one last time that you dont want it. When she insists tell her fine but you wont be there and to have fun

[Jelly_kelly]

I didn't want one either at first because my family is dysfunctional but my mother in law wanted to and she just her all in preparing for it so I decided to suck it up. My only family that showed up was my step mom and sister and cousin. The rest was my bfs family. I still had a good time and it went better then I thought and it meant a lot someone wanted to do that for me. My aunt was suppose to throw one for me but backed out for petty reasons. Even if it's small or hate parties for you just appreciate someone wants to do something for you. And who knows you may be surprised at your shower!

[ashhhleyp]

I didn't want a baby shower at all but my mom through one for me anyways. It turned out being pretty fun with good food. And I got a lot of the things I needed that I wouldnt have been able to afford.

[Breelynnsmybaby]

Don't see why anybody would make a big deal out of a baby shower. It helps you by making it so you don't have to buy everything. Also 2 hours isn't that long of a drive.

[ravengail]

You should be grateful some women wished their mil would be so involved

[jennifer_alcaraz17]

If she knows people will give you bigger clothes for your baby a baby shower its something to be proud of so you can take photos and reamber the day

[soon2bemama619]

Be thankful at least whether you like it or not. She's doing something for you and it will help you with baby clothes and whatever they give you

[KhaiK]

Tell them no. If they do it anyway don't go.

[syddie95]

You get free baby stuff...I'd go along with it personally. .......

[lex_1238_789203]

I think that a lot of times it's something ppl want to do n it makes them happy I would just go along with it if anything you can return stuff I'm sure,it,would b awkward but maybe if,it makes them happy u should I had to have my bridal shower with my husbands fam that I had never met before and it,was,very awkward,and they were pretty rude but it was fine only,lasts a few hrs and makes everyone else happy

[Miaferkoo]

Yes that's exactly how I feel and she's having money problems also and I don't want her stressing over the babyshower that I don't even want

[Ashley199322]

Same here I didn't want to have one but my bfs grandma wants to have one all my family lives 2 hrs away and can't make it so I'm pretty much attending a baby shower with a bunch of my bfs family members