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Dry humping + ejaculation

Okay, so this might sound stupid, but am quite worried. I was making out with my girlfriend, and I was on top of her. She had her legs wrapped around me, so am guessing our nether regions were near each other, but am not sure. Anyway, we we're 'dry humping', we were just kissing, but I had an erection and ejaculated. I realised, and stopped kissing her, and after a minute or so I got up and went to the toilet to attempt to dry myself.

We were both fully clothed. I had boxers and jeans on, although when I went to the toilet I noticed my penis was poking out of my boxers. She had underwear on and leggings.

I'm worried in case something could happen from that? We're both virgins and don't intend to have sex until we're married... whether it's between us or different partners... but either way. No sex before marriage.

Is there any risk of pregnancy, or not?
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No risk at all don't worry doll
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I was talking about his gf not other people. From what he said she put her self in the situation and kept trying to touch him and he pushed her hand away. Im not trying to say no one cant wait til marriage. Im sure theres people who still do and thats good for them.
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2009129 tn?1335370857
What's the point in having a girlfriend? Companionship, someone to share your life with, idk. I certainly didn't marry for sex. Some people choose not to have sex ever because it doesn't appeal to them. They still get married, have relationships, etc
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1936550 tn?1348360208
Good for him for waiting for marriage. If he wants to wait what's the point on having a gf, just my thought about it.
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he's not the inly one who's waiting/waited for marriage. I waited. I was 29 yrs old when I got married. And contrary to popular belief, a person can wait for marriage and not explode. :)  but it does take self control and not putting yourself in situations that may temp you.
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Not to be rude but u may be the only one waiting for marriage.
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I commend you for wanting to wait til marriage. There is no chance she is pregnant.
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Well, the thing is, I suffer from OCD and can worry about anything. I have a fear of sex related stuff, like STD's, and after this incident, pregnancies.

I guess am being stupid, but still... I worry.
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1936550 tn?1348360208
If you don't mind me asking if they ever taught sex education in your school? I'm guessing since your old enough to have a gf and go that far with her you are probably in your teens? Get educated before you make any move my advice to you. And for God's sake your gf is NOT pregnant lol. Relax now.
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btw, thought I should just mention.... I just found out my gf is on the pill to control her periods or something (no sex)... so am guessing and hoping that means there's no risk at all?
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Nope :) no chance.like I said semen doesn't live that long outside of the body weather it be yours or hers. By the time you went.and the bathroom to clean up and and if/when she went in there it would have died. Even on your hands and.jeans.
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OH! Sorry, forgot to mention one more thing. After this incident happened, I went to the toilet and wiped the outside of my jeans to try and dry it. I then used soap and rubbed it on my jeans where the mark was and then attempted to dry it. Because there was a slight wet patch on my jeans, I went out pretending I was drying my hands after washing them on my pants. She then held my hand and stuff, and preceded to put her hand on my leg. I kept moving it away, but am not sure whether she caught it. Also she was holding my hand, and am concerned in case she went the toilet or something, especially after wiping my hands on my leg. Or would the soap have cleaned it?

Again, this might sound completely ridiculous, but I have OCD and stuff like this worries me a lot.
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Yeah the only way that'd be possible is if you touched yourself got.it on your hand and then put your fingers inside her, even then it's highly unlikely it'd had to have been done in like 3 seconds as the sperm doesn't live that long outside of yours or her body. Know what I mean? You're safe though :)
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Thanks for your replies.

I figured that was the case, but I read online with people asking a similar question to me and there were mixed responses of no way is there a chance, to there is a chance and it freaked me a bit.

Yeah, she's my first real girlfriend and we just ended up getting into kissing each other more than we have before. Won't let that happen to that degree again, not after the worrying.
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1936550 tn?1348360208
I'm sorry lol but in order to get pregnant you would have to be inside her. I'm guessing your young and just worried.
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1936698 tn?1333915193
It is not possible for sperm to go through your jeans and through her underwear and then it would have to try to find its way to the vagina...which it impossible. But if you don't want to have sex before you are married don't try things like that because it will make you want to and eventually both of you will cave in. If you want to stay virgins try to stay away from sexual acts like that.
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Why do what? Kiss? We weren't 'dry humping', I just used that since it was the best description of the situation. I just happened to be turned on and ejaculate. There wasn't any dry humping, per se.

But there's no chance anything could come from that? It's properly freaked me out now. Guess we should tone down the kissing.
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1936550 tn?1348360208
Pregnancy is not possible like that you described. But if your waiting for marriage then why do that? I'm not expecting an answer but if your a virgin and want to wait, I don't see why you'd do that?
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