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377012 tn?1283965435

FUNERAL FOR BABY!!!!

Well as some of you know, my SIL got another BFP after 3 miscarriages! she was 16 weeks (baby measured bigger than 16 wks.) unfortunately she passed a clot the size of an average persons fist on saturday evening....she went to the E.R. and they told her everything was FINE!!!! Sunday morning at 8am she went to the bathroom to pee and started cramping very badly, she wiped and got up and before she could pull up her clothes she felt faint and leaned over the tub to steady herself and.........................the baby actually fell out of her!! the ambulance was there within 10 minutes while she lay in the bathroom floor with baby literally hanging out of her they picked her and the baby up and took her straight to l&d..........confirmed at the hospital........a BOY!

BRAXTON JACOB
15OZ. & 10IN. LONG

He had all his fingers and toes, eyebrows, and everything!!!!
The hospital didn't specify what they would do with the baby except that they would "discard it" ( exact words of a nurse) so my brother & SIL decided to have a funeral tomorrow at 2pm ( burial service-closed casket) i know they are horrified and i would like for everyone to pray that they will get through this!!!
---------THANK YOU ALL IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR PRAYERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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689265 tn?1251130087
all sympathies as others have said but can't believe er sending her home saying everything was fine after passing a clot the size of a fist. i'd at least complain.
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378557 tn?1233249392
Omg, this gets me choked up.... so terribly sad. :( They are in my thoughts and prayers.
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435139 tn?1255460391
What a sad story...hopefully this will help them with closure and the grieving process!
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143123 tn?1274300825
Dealing with losses, there is nothing to say, but they are definitely in my prayers!
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568875 tn?1424397205
my prayers are with ur family.
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363110 tn?1340920419
I'm so sorry. It sounds like IC to me. Why do some people have all the bad things happen to them.?   It bothers me... They are all in my prayers!
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377012 tn?1283965435
thank you all for your prayers as i know they will definitely need them!!!!!!!!!
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210400 tn?1325380570
Oh I am so sorry that is so difficult, I can't even imagine. Lots of prayers going out to your sister and her husband.
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554628 tn?1362777919
awww sorry to hear that i know that is devistatingi lost twins at 21 wks in march 2008 and it was very hard but if the hospital (discards) they cremate them and bury them. it was hard for me to do but the hospital i went they cremated the twins buried them and then had a memorial svc every 3 months for families of lost babies and etc but she is def in my prayers i know its hard
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290867 tn?1333569278
Your family in is my thougths and prayers! Its so unfoutionate! Good Luck and God Bless
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358971 tn?1330888975
my prayers go to your sil and family. Such a tragedy
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Avatar universal
There are no words to comfort a mother whose had a loss, I will keep your family in my prayers.
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My prayers, thoughts and best wishes are with your family.
Please take care of each other.
xxxx
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650636 tn?1293454560
I am so sorry to hear this! I will pray for your SIL and the family.
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377012 tn?1283965435
i actually put the wrong name.....sorry sort of in awe!!!!

BRAXTON ELI YATES
BORN: 02/01/09 (8:05 am)
PASSED: 02/01/09 (8:06 am)
15oz. & 10in. long
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