Family drama :/

[KayBee247]

So hi there. This is my first post. (: I kind of need advice. Im going through my first pregnancy. My mom and I just started talking again. She kicked me out at 18 cause my fiance was Catholic and it led to alot of arguments down the line. Anyway, her mother (my grandma) has been very anal and bitter since I can remember and now that my mom and I are talking again, she's been pushing me to talk to my grandma again because she just started talking to her again as well. Its getting ridiculous and she's trying to control everything. It seems like she can only have one relationship at a time. Any experienced moms out there with some family drama? Shes constantly inviting me to my church and has my younger sister witnessing to me these days. I need to find a balance before the baby is born. Help please. :/

[klander95]

That's a good additude to have! Just hang in there and focus your and baby's happiness!

[caitybaird]

My mother and I have zero relationship. She's into drugs and is always trying to butt into my life. You shouldn't have to push love. Just look around and see who is really there for you.

[crissy_15]

I understand drama I really do I'm 19 this is my first baby and my family don't no I'm even pregnant to scared to tell them they are not big fans of my boyfriend and they thank I chose him over family but what I resided is to start doing what's best for me and my baby if that means being in my family's life as little as possible then that is what it means cuz its not about them or me any more its about my baby and what his best for her

[klander95]

I have so much family drama it's crazy. Luckily since I have been pregnant things have gotten better but there is constant drama with my mom. All I can say, because I don't know much about your situation is to do only what YOU feel is best. You are the adult now, and you have the right to control your own situation. Try to not stress too much because that's never healthy. But don't let anyone but yourself control you during this time. You can talk more to me if you need to, but I hope this helps a little bit!