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LIARS!

Ughhhhhhhh! I don't understand why people will lie to thier grave about stupid ish! Just be honest & take it like a man! I'm venting right now,  my lying cheating selfish disgusting babies' father.  4 years I gave him my all. & he has cheated cheated lied lied .. etc. I gotta stay strong for my kids. Glad thier sleep while I'm this upset. I can't keep letting him tear my heart into shreds.
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Yes I know ^ appreciate that
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Kat the beginning of my post was directed at the people that grouped all men together. Halfway down when I said your name, that was directed at you. Just so you know (:
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7381903 tn?1391464888
I would dis agree with the above statement, all guys are NOT liars and cheaters. A guy who DOESNT love you is going to lie to you and cheat on you also That's a weak man !, NOW how ever its plenty of those crap head guys lying around. But hun I don't think no women deserves that you sound like a nice person. But I wouldn't put up w. That cause he's no good boo.
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Np mommas hope everything turns out well for u n ur babies!!!
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Thanks ^ yes Well said.
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Mommikat its not cool at all for a "man" to cheat on his pregnant wife or gf etc its shows he has no respect for u or his unborn child n he doesn't deserve to have a good woman yea its a two way street but he had the wheel to make a different turn he took the wrong street n cheated but if the tables were turned n u cheated it would be world war 5 if u allow it once it will happen again cuz he will think u will always be there u ain't going nowhere ik its hard but if ur not going to pack up n leave don't let him off that easy not saying u go out n cheat cuz 2 wrongs don't make a right but keep his @$$ in the dog house for a while!! Do wats best for u n ur babies not for sure if u have a daughter or if ur lil one that's on the way is a girl (I'm having a girl) but when things happen I think wat advice would I give my daughter honestly n stick to it
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Na you can group all men together.... aaaaaholes lol...
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I was just thinking the same thing mommikat lol
But I'm sorry your going through this. I just woke up from a dream that mine was cheating it leaves me terrified. I can't imagina what ur going through
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Idk why everybody keeps commenting about not all men cheat,  because I never said that. You may have read it in another post, but not words that I said. I was venting about my personal life.
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You can't group all men together into one category like that. Its untrue and unfair. Yes, a lot of men are liars and/or cheaters, but its not fair to them to doubt their intelligence and integrity as a whole. If you've met every man on the planet, then it would be different. The same goes for the things that are said about women. I'm sorry this is happening to you Kat, you really do deserve better. But now he's shown you his true colors. Do what's best for you and your babies. Don't stoop to his level. You're better than that. You can get through this. Just have faith (:
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6265786 tn?1386113658
me personally I've never cheated. but I have lied. I've been with cheaters. all guys are liars I do agree with that but not all cheat. gurls can be liars and cheaters or not cheaters but yes definatly lied we all have even if its the smallest thing. I dont get why guys cheat!! I dont get why they dont just dump us. im guessing they want the best of both worlds. I've seen a few posts abkuf cheating husbands on here and its sickening. does marriage mean nothing??? I've been cheated on once that I do know of! it really s u x. so I got with his best mate.and id do it again. so he wouldnt dare cheat again. u cant let him get away with it. u really need the whole story. yes he cheated but it is a 2way street. she was probly a. s l u t who was all over him. no excuse tho I know. fhe hottest celebrities and models get cheated on. so what does that tell you. some guys like the rush some have a sex addiction who knows. all I know is if you can get regular sex on tap. why risk your relationship. cos men are i d I o t s and they love the rush. im soo sorry hun. alot of us have been there. all it comes down to now is what is the next sfep you are going to take
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Thanks everybody.
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Yes i agree with babymama1992
But if you wanna put it that way, then we are all at fault. Everyone has done something stupid in their lives and made mistakes. This mistake he made, trust me he won't forget it and he will regret it.  I am so sorry that you're going through this. :( It's not right and you deserve better. Idk what you believe in but I'd say give it to God Cuz He can and will handle this situation.  Maybe he's the one,  maybe he's not,  but either way girl be strong and know that you are never alone and that God will send you a help mate whether it be the baby daddy as a changed man or a whole new person cuz I believe that you are a wonderful person and an awesome mommy. You can and will get thru this. Whatever u do, keep up ur faith and stay strong k. Much love ♡♡♡♡♡
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Is it like cool for guys to cheat on they pregnant ladies? I mean I don't sit up here for one second & doubt my sex skills,  my cooking skills,  my looks, my loyalty,  my honesty, my love.  I know I'm not the reason. Its crazy how bad you do the ones "you can't live without"
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I dont think its fair to say all men are liars and cheats. There are good men out there aswel. But sadly there are ones who dont realise how good they have got it  and how loved they actually are. Hope you ladies are ok and stay strong for your babies :)
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7540995 tn?1391791515
Sadly but true all guys are liars and cheaters I know how you feel I have a lot of anger inside of me too cause my husband cheated too
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