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Let's talk SEX!

So I'm a ftm 10 weeks today and my husband and I have only had sex once since I'm just so tired and just not in the mood to even be touched I know this is normal and my husband is being really great about it all but I know he wishes I would at least cuddle a little more anyone else felt this way? I know Iv heard your sex drive picks up second trimester when you have more enegry is this true?
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9263335 tn?1403463032
I'm 29weeks & my sex drive did pick up but haven't had sex because my husband is scared he's gonna hurt the baby when I've explained to him that it's safe to have sex. :( he says it hurts him when he puts it in idk if that's true or just his excuse to turn me down..
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I am six weeks and constantly having sex some times two times a day!! It's not that I want it my boyfriend does, I'm not into it.. But once it starts I seem to like it haha!!
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9523089 tn?1414211966
My sex drive actually doubled with this pregnancy lol with my first two my ex husband actually nauseated me lol but not my current partner I'm wanting all the time I get to see him lol
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I am 35 weeks and want sex constantly. My man is pretty happy about it.
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9676882 tn?1405226589
My sex drive went M.I.A. ever since I was 4 weeks pregnant. I'm now 24 weeks.
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9535172 tn?1409019789
I'm 32,w and sex everyday! And I'm the one that wants its! My hubby is like omg u r wearing me out lol!
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Thanks for the advise ladies I guess only time will tell hopefully my energy and sex drive pick up
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10020336 tn?1410657538
I'm 36 weeks and 6 days and my husband and I can't have sex because it hurt so bad. It hurt a little in the beginning of this pregnancy but now it's like a horrible horrible pain. Like its my first time again. This is my second pregnancy and it definitely didn't happen with my first. With my first we were constantly going at it and now we've had sex like a gained handful of times this whole pregnancy.
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Not for me. Lol I'm 5 months and still hardly ever have sex with my husband. It never picked up for me unfortunately. Im just sore, getting bigger, and tired. Everyone is different though!
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Mine never picked up the second trimester, it got worse..im only using my husband for sex now to get me prepared  for labor lol
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Yup true ! :) I'm in d 2nd trimester n your body starts to be a little more normal,  u have more energy,  more sex drive,  u don't have to pee a lot anymore or get too sleepy,  it completely changes. :)
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Girl I am 24 weeks and I am just not in the mood ever :(
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