Emily the Mods words above 'We haven't had a real big issue with people posting referrals until this all started here. It's essentially the same thing though - if you post a link to a site, I can just directly go there. If you post the name of the FB group, with instructions to search for it, I can still go there, with just a couple of extra steps. It's not different than posting the link.'
So same thing. Not allowed. Have a great day Combs7. Good luck in your pregnancy.
To mention another site isn't a link. All this does is keep **** going. They are going to continue to do it. Bumping this only pushes doen important post.
Two posts down actually, there are links to other sites, just reminding them of the regulations. Thanks.
As you can see the thread is closed. Why bump it? No one has posted links.
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Sorry first sentence was caused problems in our past.
It caused problems in the oast because his exes wanted to be friends with him and all his sisters nasty girl friends. He got mad at mr because my brothers ex boyfriend wanted to be friends and i had no problem with it because hes gay and he knows my intire family and he would message how are my kids and my husband jumped to conclusions it was retarted really ive known him since i was a kid and there isnt a straight bone in his body to get jealous over. So we decided not to be on anymore because it caused to many problems and insecuritys.
We have discussed the reasons why over and over, and we get it, we understand your feelings. There is no reason to continue to post about this.
If you all want to respond to Searra, that's fine, but let's leave out the rehashing of it all, and just talk to her.
Emily
How come your husband doesn't allow you to have fb? I'm just curious of the reason, I'm not trying to be rude
Well i cant be on there cause my husband is a prude SO IM MAD!! Come back its too slow!
Yes, I'm serious. We only deactivate as a last resort, and it just hasn't been nearly that many.
I'm sorry people think that.
Emily
R u serious ? I thought thats were all the trying to find different ways to come back came from and the ones on the u know were want to because it stinks:/
Searra -
We haven't deactivated 30 girls. I'm not sure where that has come from, and can't comment on any individuals, but I assure you it isn't anywhere near 30. It's definitely a single digit number.
We are willing to look at each person and discuss it, but we can't make any promises.
Emily
Thanks for actually reading them, MamacitaTP. We haven't had a real big issue with people posting referrals until this all started here. It's essentially the same thing though - if you post a link to a site, I can just directly go there. If you post the name of the FB group, with instructions to search for it, I can still go there, with just a couple of extra steps. It's not different than posting the link.
For all the complaints about the Am I Pregnant questions pushing actual pregnancy questions down the list, all of these posts about the other site are doing the same.
Emily
Yeah i get it i report those and they get tookin off. This site has really changed in the last couple of months and all the girls who always gave alot to this site are gone. I wish there is a way they could come back. Hey moderator if the girls right yall and promise not to post sites can they come back? I no atleast thirty girls that would love to join again??
Hey there, I just re-read the terms and policies, and no where does it say it's not alright to "mention" a link in a public forum; I do understand posting a direct one is not allowed- whether it be further information for breastfeeding help or what not. I do not specifically see where it says referrals to other groups is not allowed in private messages either.
There are many issues with women who have private-messaged links and friend requests for other sites to get to a more personal level, along with planning to still use medhelp. Since that is not part of the public part of the forum they are still trying to understand why their medhelp accounts are now sadly banned.
There's a part of medhelp's terms of use that obviously needs to be better clarified.
I should have said "links or referrals to other groups", sorry for any confusion. You can stay in touch on our site here, or by creating a user group. If anyone would like to do that, let me know.
Emily
Stay here u wont like anywere else thats why the girls want to come back even though they cant:(
Its better then any of the other ones trust me u want to be here, the others are exstremly immature. U cant get a decent answer without getting cursed out about real situations.