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3931312 tn?1349342982

Lost It

I lost my 10 week baby.Reports said that there was no cardiac activity and no fetal pole. so they advised for D& C.I got a second opinion where the doc gave me some injections to induce growth but no output at 10th week I started bleeding so it was a failed pregnancy. It was my first baby ,I don't no why me why y baby ,but doc advised us for no relations till 3 months. when can i plan again ?
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1891853 tn?1344648442
Doctors say no sex for 4 Weeks. I would wait those four Weeks, then resume if your comfortable and you're no longer bleeding. Wait for your period to come first, before trying for another baby in my opinion.
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3931312 tn?1349342982
no heartbeat was there.......between doc told us to avoid relations for one month ,is that true i mean we shud?
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3208100 tn?1346945010
the doctor always told us we could start trying when we felt ready and the blood stoped.  did you ever see a heartbeat with your baby
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So sorry for you lose hun.. i just list my baby in August at 22+5... She was my 5th pregnancy but 3rd child.. She was my BF 1st child.. i definitely feel your pain though.. feel free to message me any time... its been almost 9 weeks.. just got off my first period since i had her and we are trying again now:) good luck hun:)
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Hi my first preg also was a miscariage I was 14 weeks .. At least I did wait the 3 month just to let my body get back to normal , now im almost 36.weeks :) ...
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2170635 tn?1357911686
Im sorry hope you get a baby soon :)
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2193601 tn?1392460637
Im so sorry for your loss
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1891853 tn?1344648442
I didn't wait 3 months after i had a d&c. My period came 5 1/2 Weeks after and then i conceived again. And now i have a healthy 3 month old boy. my miscarriage was my first pregnancy too, i know how you feel. If you want to try sooner than 3 months you can, i would just advise waiting til you get your period so you can accurately date the pregnancy. Most doctors say 3 months so you have time to be emotionally ready.   Im sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. I believe you can start trying after 3 months as Lon as you've had a normal cycle.
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