Miscarriage?

[Mswendz]

I am 27, and my boyfriend and I had been ttc for a year now. About 12 days ago I took a pregnancy test and had faint line, but this was around 4pm. I bought a different type of pt (the one with plus and negative sign) at 6pm another faint line on the plus sign. I saved both and took both in the morning and again both was a faint line.. That day i didn't tell my boyfriend yet because i wanted to get an appointment from a doctor and have it confirmed. The next night my boyfriend and I had sex. Then the next day i felt cramping pain (not as bad as when i get my period) and saw a spot (brown in color) then i started bleeding the next day but only lasted for 2 days. Now i am confused if i was ever pregnant or was just late? But my period usually last 5 days and never 2 days.. After 2 days when the bleeding stopped i tried another PT and now read negative.. Now i feel depressed because i thought i was pregnant.. I took 5 days off from work because i was having an emotional breakdown..

Yesterday, i came back to work and i was having cramping like pain but more like stabbing, heavy feeling pain on my lower abdomen, not my usual pain when i get my period, that i cant really walk straight..

I called for an appointment but there is none available for this week.. My appointment is next week.. Im just worried that i will not be able to conceive..

[Mswendz]

My blood test was negative. They just told me that i maybe thinking bout it too much that i start feeling this way.. I was kinda pissed. Its my body so i know what i feel.. To think this was suppose to helpe but that doctor is an a**!! Anyway i still have an appointment with my obgyn next thurs..


I feel somewhat disappointed..

But ill keep my head up and keep trying..

[Mswendz]

Thank u.. I know i need to go get check and i will.. Just got home from work.. Kinda exhausted..

I will keep u posted..

Thank u for the responds again.. Having someone to talk to relieves me from stressing over it..

My boyfriend supports me but he doesnt really know what to say to make me feel any better.. Sometimes he acts like evrything is ok.. But i guess he just really dont know what to do..

I probably cant stop saying thank u.. But again thanks..

I will hit the bed now and post news tomorrow..

Goodnight moms! Godbless!

[emmymom712]

I wish I could say something to help you.  I went through miscarriage with my first and it was the hardest thing to deal with.  Honestly, it's better to go in and just know what's happening with your body than to be continually stressing over it.  If you have support from your boyfriend, then that's great.  If it really is a miscarriage, there is and was nothing you can or could have done to prevent it.  A lot of the time the embryo just doesn't implant into the uterine wall correctly.  Keep your head up, it will happen for you!

[Mswendz]

@emmymom - I really am i guess paranoid.. Every pain or amything i would feel kinda makes me wonder or asks more questions.. And i just realized that im posting questions in the wrong category. But thank u all for responding anyway..


Again we have been ttc for exactly a yr now..  And my last HPT was negative?  I guess im just in a wishful thinking right now that there is a baby growing inside me. I will ask my boyfriend to go with me tomorrow to ER..


Though it will probably make me more emotinal knowing that there may be nothing.. Oh no. Here I go again..


I am actually typing in tears..


I really want to have a baby now..

[emmymom712]

I would go to the ER and get checked out.  In the first trimester I was so scared to lose my baby too and when i had spotting I went in.  I feared every pain in my stomach, thinking it was miscarriage.  Fortunately for me it wasn't.  Cramping is also very common in the first trimester because your uterus is expanding.  I would just go and get checked out, even if it's just to ease your mind.  The waiting game just *****.  I'm sorry you're going through this.

[Mswendz]

I just had a spotting today? Pain comes and go. The stabbing pain is around the right lower abdomen.. And still feels bloated..

[Mswendz]

@ nellyzz- i tried the taking temp daily.. And i also have an application in my phone that keeps track of it so i dont forget or so that i know when i should ovulating or having my period.  My friend also told me to take prenatal vitamins. It contains folic acid. And i have been taking that for almost 2 months.  And thank you for responding.. It really helps a lot to be able to ask someone that can relate to me..

@KDQ - maybe i will go to ER tomorrow.. The pain subsided a little bit today.. But i can still feel heavy like bloated in my lower stomach

[Mswendz]

Thank u for ur respond. Yes i am really curious why it was only two days.. And i may had a clot but very small..

I have an appointment next week thursday..

My last menstruation was aug 18 ended 22nd..

[Nellyzz]

dont think that hun. you got a faint line you can get pregnant u might be getting ur days wrong. I thought just like u but I couldn't understand why I was getting ptegnant. I also was taking folic acid when we were trying to concieve and it workd for me. hang in there :))

[KDQ]

If you can't get an appointment and are having pain go to the hospital. A faint positive line is still a positive and pain may indicate a tubal pregnancy or miscarraige. If you go to the hospital you can confirm your pregnancy and make sure everything is okay.

[Nellyzz]

I feel your pain sooooo bad hun I can relate with you!! me and my man were trying for years!!! with noooo luck untill I realised we were doing it all wrong. so first time trying properly we got it straight away. I didn't use ovulation kits or temp I tracked my cervical mucus. faint line is a positive!! the spotting could have been implantation. i agree with this person ^^^^ miscarriage is heavy and lasts longer then 2 days. if u had severe pain in your lower left or right abdomin could have been a tubal pregnancy instead of nesting in the uterus it nests in your tubes. could have been many possibilitys. am sorry for ur loss. the fertility friend app helpd me concieved first pop give it a go. dnt give up. really it will happen. goodluck baby dust ur way. :))

[jmb4611]

A Faint Positive Line Is Still Positive No Matter How Faint! How Far A Long Do You Think You Were Cause If You Were Farther Then 6 Weeks You Would Have Saw A Placenta Come Out Like I Did When I Had A Miscarriage I Also Did Not Bleed For Only 2 Days When I Had A Miscarriage I Bled For 2 Weeks. Id Definitely Get A Appointment