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My secret.

I hope I'm ready for motherhood. This is my second pregnancy but I'm a first time mom. I got pregnant when I was 17 and still in high school. I knew I couldn't have a baby because I wasn't financially stable and I didn't know the father of my baby. I grew up with two loving parents who were married five years before even considered children. I just wanted the same for when I had a baby. I thought the best thing I could do for my baby was give her a life that I couldn't give to her. I never told anyone I was pregnant because I didn't want the hassle of friends and family trying to change my mind about adoption. I respectfully decided to go through my first pregnancy some and when time came to have her I was in and out of the hospital in 24 hours. I was all alone and part of me regretted that decision buti knew what I wanted to do. She now has two loving parents who are both teachers and I'm still very satisfied with my decision all those years ago. But now I'm 39 weeks pregnant and have a scheduled cesarean section on Friday. And I'm really scared. All these years later I have a loving husband and a stable home. But idk how ready I am to be a mom. I live my baby to death and can't wait to meet her. I just hope I do a good job.
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Your a very strong person. It will be a great mother. Congrats!
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You're very brave you'll be a great mom
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I think for you to think of your unborn baby before yourself, especially at such a young age is very commendable. That is such a selfless act, and I'm sure was a very hard decision.  I believe you will be an amazing mom with your second. Good luck♡♡
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I think that's very normal. Although this baby is not your first it will be your first to take care of. I am a ftm and I feel the same way. I know I'm a good person and have a good head on my shoulders but I am still nervous and anxious. Don't feel alone. I'm sure it will just come to us when our little ones are here :) good luck to you!
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Thank you (: it was literally the hardest thing I've ever had to face and I do feel like I'll do good but there's still anxiety in the back of my mind
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good for you for choosing adoption.
I'm not against or for abortion - but sometimes it's the easiest way to 'deal', you know?
you have so much strength in you for choosing that at such a young age - you should know in your heart you will be fine. you're already a great mother for deciding to let your baby have a chance at a good life :)
This one should be a breeze :)
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Thank you (: it's just a little frightening.
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You will be fine. Just take it day by day. Take parenting classes if u feel u need to. At least u have a loving husband who will be around to help you.
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