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Scared of baby

I'm 36 weeks and 6 days I'm very scared to have a baby I know I should be all excited but this is my 1st baby n I don't know much on newborns I'm scared I might fail at being a mother I always wanted a family and now I have my fiancé n a baby on the way it's starting to scare me idk is there any 1st time moms or anyone that's felt this before
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I'm 38wks tomorrow and everyone keeps asking if I'm excited and of course I say yes but when I tell them I'm scared they just look at me crazy and ask "why?" I am more than excited to start my new life as a mommy but I also am clueless when it comes to baby's...infants at that. I even went to parenting classes, took an infant CPR class and I am still scared ********. Everyone tells me when I have her it will just come naturally to me.
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Thanks that really meant a lot ladies it gets me scared to know everything is gonna change in my life my mom says she notices that I'm not happy that this baby is coming cause she will buy it clothes n I will say thank u or aww how cute idk what she excepts me to do but idk how to show it my pregnancy has been horrible hopefully my next will be more enjoyment but I feel like I'm not gonna be a good mom by the things she says to me n yes I know it will click to b a mom
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My cousin didnt knwo anything about kids what so ever. As soon as she had her baby everything just clicked!
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13167 tn?1327194124
jenea,  anyone with any brains at all is scared before their first baby is born.  

They're scared of labor,  scared they might not be the perfect parent,  scared of what the future will bring.

That fear will make you a better mother.
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Same boat here..
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