Sex Life *****

[JNorfleet]

So im only 22 but i am 31 wks and my sex life with my bf is nonexistent. We been 2ghtr 6yrs and idk if its jus me or both of us that dont have the sex drive anymore. I want to have sex, but how can i b sexy with a big belly? How can i get the sex drive back in our relationship? If anyone has any advice or suggestions pls comment cus im at a crossroad and i feel him and i are losing that love and attraction we once had.

[terrellsmom15]

Try being the aggressor, without talking about it. my bf and i went through the same thing not that long ago, he told me he was just nervous in trying to touch me/engage in sex because he didn't know how i was feeling, are my nipples to sore to touch, does my back hurt, am i even horny..etc So i just started to engage in sec 1 day, and Id it def gave him his confidence back in me having a sex drive towards him & just period.

[terrellsmom15]

Try being the aggressor, without talking about it. my bf and i went through the same thing not that long ago, he told me he was just nervous in trying to touch me/engage in sex because he didn't know how i was feeling, are my nipples to sore to touch, does my back hurt, am i even horny..etc So i just started to engage in sec 1 day, and Id it def gave him his confidence back in me having a sex drive towards him & just period.

[brittneyelz]

I agree with you. Just after a few days and it drives me crazy and makes me doubt things. Mainly because i didnt get to see my husband for 4 months. So it caused so many issues with my self esteem. I like what the other girl said is to find intimacy in other things becides sex so you dont depend on the sex and you dont feel let down if you dont get it.

[m_r_p]

I think it'll go back to normal after you have the baby. My husband and I have sex every once in awhile but not much. We've been together 8 years. With my first two it was pretty similar but after the baby was born we went back to having sex more frequently.

[Mama_AyBee]

Lol @lien_hua you're absolutely right.  I do that all the time and it works like a charm.  Your partner still finds you sexy JNorfleet. Don't worry your pretty lil head. Try the naked trick :)

[amberfullmer22]

I completely understand! Lol its hard to want to when u feel gross :/ find other ways of intimacy like take a bath together or massages even if sex doesn't happen the affection is there and to me means more than sex . feeling love other ways is a good way to go so u don't depend on sex to bring u two closer cause as u get older sex may lose its spark . and other ways of showing love needs to come into play .. Surprise him with dinner and mutual body rubs and I can guarantee u will feel just as satisfied.

[lien_hua]

Try sleeping naked, you and your bf. That works for me.

[lien_hua]

Try sleeping naked, you and your bf. That works for me.

[JNorfleet]

Yea i guess im more in fear of being a turn off then anything. We actually sit a say lets hve sex. But thats not how its supposed to be, its supposed to be something that just happens

[carlson_tori2]

He will always think your sexy don't let the fear of striking out prevent your from playing the game:)

[kendallleblanc]

Me and my husband had sex up until 39 weeks like every night lol.  He always thought on top was sexy, cause he could see everything lol. But the best position in my opinion was doggy style. My belly didn't get in the way and it was comfortable.