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6765322 tn?1395814235

Soon or i should waited ?

I'm having my first baby in April and im real exited . I'm 23 years old and love is 26 both our first kid. I always thought ill have kids at 25 yrs old , but i my head i couldnt wait . I'm super in love going on 5 yrs together. I admit sometimes  I  think i should waited more to have more time with my bf and go out and have fun at bars with friends . Idk im happy  but you guys think it was soon? Were both exited , i just feel bad when we do go out i get super tired and before me and my bf we use to go out alot.
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I too got married young I'm still young. I meant my husband when I was 19 he was 25. We dated got married when I was 20 and I had our first baby at 22 I'm pregnant again and by the time I have this baby I'll be 24. I believe that everything happens for a reason and I'm so glad this is how my life is. Sometimes I do miss hanging out with friends though and doing things people my age are doing but I'm glad I'm having my kids at a young age and getting that out of the way and I'm still in school and also working. I feel more responsible than a lot of my friends.


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6765322 tn?1395814235
Good luck to all you girlies... :) thanx for all your comments.
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I am 21 years old and pregnant with mine and my fiancées first baby also due in april. He is 29 and we don't really party much. I went out on my 21st birthday to the bar and that's about it... we had a few beers every once in a while.. but that was about it. I am the same way... when we go out I gey really tired and usually fall asleep on the way home. But other than that we are happy and super excited for our little girl :)  even though she wasn't planned we are still greatful for this opportunity to become parents :) may not have been when we wanted but we are okay with that as long as our little girl is happy and healthy
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6765322 tn?1395814235
Hey i got with my bf on May 24 I was 18 he was 21 . after 5 years on these May on April 20 were having our first . Funny how our times our the kinda the same and now were pregnant.
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6441395 tn?1395036211
I started dating my now husband when I was 17, I am now 22 (23 in Dec) and he is going to be 23 next friday, may will be the month we've been together for 5 years :D we got married dec of 2012, 7 months after we got married I got pregnant July 2013 ♡ this is going to be our first child ♡♥♡ a baby girl, we are due April 23rd 2014!! So excited!!! I have never once partied in my life,  neither has my husband, I feel like we waited the perfect time to have our daughter, and I wouldn't trade it for nothing in this world ♡♥♡♥
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6765322 tn?1395814235
lol yeah he said it was ok and didnt care but i just had that dumb thought .
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And im 20 and my husband is 21 now! We are young but have never been the partying type of version of a fun night is our friends coming over for dinner and playing card games lol! Every once in awhile my hubby will drink with his buddies but not often!
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I got married when i was 19 my husband was20 we were together since i was 15 him 16 all through high school basically and im now 31w5d with twin boys both our first children! And we couldnt be more excited♥
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7226011 tn?1389330533
So yall have been together 5 years and you're worried about wearing cute underwear for him after delivery? (Read your other post).
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6765322 tn?1395814235
Thats one thing i really wanted to do is get married first, but thats going happen when the money right. Unlest my lil will be there that day to see his mom daddy happy :]
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6765322 tn?1395814235
Yeah i felt like it was the right time im happy all those thoughts of my old life will vanish when i have my lil prince in my arms .
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6765322 tn?1395814235
OMG i know sometimes im like hey i should be happy i got a right guy and im not out looking for love and is time to settle down.
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6628393 tn?1398789276
Agreed with above .. I was 19 when I got married and actually had my lmp on my wedding day so I was pregnant. Now I am 21 almost 22 with number 2. I havent had much of a break becausr I breastfed up until I was a few months pregnant. I sometimes wish I wouldve lived a little but then look at what I created and know my dreams are true because its what I wanted. So I was young but the time was right somonlynyou cwn answer it for yourself.
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It's up to you. I'm 22 yr and I'm 21,weeks with mine and my hubby first baby. Sometimes I start thinking about how long it's going to be until I can go out and do things like that and I start freaking out cuz I think idk if I'm ready yet, but my hubby always calms me down and points out that it's worth not doing that stuff anymore
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I was 21 when i got married soon after found out i was pregnant,  i have a 6 month old and as of today i am 5 weeks and 5 days prego... if you feel the time is right then thats all that matters (:
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