Verbally abusive

[Laurenkelley]

My fiancee puts me down alot. Now that im pregnant he criticizes everything I do even more. can the extra stress from his insanity do me or my baby harm?

[Mom_2_Be_4]

I agree with the comment above but the stress can make you miscarry and you are only 7weeks that's really not good but I wish you the best of luck Hun and try talking to him about it.

[KTowne]

If he does, that is a BIG sign of being emotionally abusive, trying to blame it on you. Tell him he has two options, getting some help, or you're done. If he chooses it to be over, he wasn't worth it anyway, trust me hormones get WAY worse, and I would really hate to see it escalate into a physically abusive relationship, which it easily can. You are a strong woman, and you will get through it, hopefully with your family together!! When are you due? I'm 9w4d! So we're pretty close in due dates!!

[babyinJuly]

Stress is no gud for you or baby. Maybe you should talk to him and let him know that he's causing more harm then gud, and hope that'll set him straight. If he's not willing to change maybe you should rethink your relationship.

[Laurenkelley]

I agree and I just needed to hear it from another woman. I never talked about it before. Im nervous that if I ask him to go to counseling,that he will try to turn it around on me like he always does. I cant stand his attitude anymore and im only 7 weeks. I dont mind raising this baby myself.

[KTowne]

Of course not only is stress not good for you and baby during pregnancy, you can't have your child growing up and seeing him treat you that way, and thinking its okay to do to his/her spouse, or other people in general.. Have you talked to him about it, may counseling? If he doesn't listen, I would definitely get out of the relationship, it's not fair to you or your child!