Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

Wanting some advise so stressed out

So it's been 2months since I had my daughter and at the start I was happy to stay living at home with my mum as I'm only 17 I didn't want to move out just yet, but she's constantly moaning at at me I just feel like the best thing to do is move out so I can feel happy sick off feeling so low all the time it's like I have my own daughter yet my mums always wants to tell me what I can and can't do sick of her attitude toward me all the time,does anyone know what's the best thing to do?x
3 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
I know what you mean. Its very hard to not be the mother of the house when you have kids of your own. Do what you think is best.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Yeah I totally understand that being 17 it's not that easy to just up and move out, I find it hard to tell my mum things u can't talk to her about anything we've never had a close relationship it's kinda hard I wish I could just tell her everything with there not being a problem telling her things but I just bottle everything up,my daughter is the one that keeps me happy and smiling each day & thanks for your advise I appreciate it very much xx
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I had my daughter when i was 18 and still living at home with mum. I felt completely undermined all the time as she would always try and tell how/when to do things. It is horrible when your trying to find your own way for you and your baby, but the best thing to do is explain to her how its making you feel.
Mums have a natural urge, so try and explain to her that she has to take a bit more of a back seat with things.
Youd think it would be easier on your own, with your own space.. Its not all its cracked up to be, and there will be times when youll need the support. Hope it all works out for you x
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy Community

Top Pregnancy Answerers
13167 tn?1327194124
Austin, TX
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.